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A Broken System

Misconduct and Whistleblowing



From Huffington Post by  BY STEPHEN KRASNER

One need not surf far on the internet in the realm of social media to find stories dealing with things such as extortion, quid pro quo, favoritism, bias, corruption, due process, abuse of power, collusion, threat, fraud, perjury, abuse of process, and cronyism.  While you would think these subjects are discussed frequently in groups associated with politics and public figures, they often pop up in the accounts of folks engaged with Family Courts and ordeals having to do with Divorce and Child Custody.

Sounding the Bell
Many lawyers and judges within this industry often dismiss and brush off those mothers and fathers who call out wrongdoings with the court and its players as being disgruntled or resentful.  Perhaps that is the case with many, but who can blame most of them for being that way?  Given the archaic laws and obstacles that unjustly wrong many good parents and children it is no wonder that a parent would feel this way.  No shortage exists as to the many experiences expressed by these parents, most of whom articulate them in a clear and concise manner, providing evidence that certainly meets the burden of proof in exposing breakdowns in law, due process, ethics and judicial discretion.  

Rules for Professional Conduct
In print, and in theory, it looks pretty decent and honorable when reading the American Bar Association’s model rules for professional conduct where it is stated in rule 8.3 as to the duties of reporting professional misconduct in the industry.  The rule speaks to a lawyer who knows another lawyer is in violation of these rules, in terms of honesty and trustworthiness, being obligated to report that lawyer to the appropriate professional authority.  Likewise when violations are known by an attorney in regards to judges committing misconduct the obligation exists where the lawyer should report this to the appropriate authority.
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ABA MODEL RULES FOR PROFESSIONAL CONDUCT AVAILABLE AT HTTP://WWW.AMERICANBAR.ORG/GROUPS/PROFESSIONAL_RESPONSIBILITY/PUBLICATIONS/MODEL_RULES_OF_PROFESSIONAL_CONDUCT/MODEL_RULES_OF_PROFESSIONAL_CONDUCT_TABLE_OF_CONTENTS.HTML
A listing of states that have adopted these rules is available at http://www.americanbar.org/groups/professional_responsibility/publications/model_rules_of_professional_conduct/alpha_list_state_adopting_model_rules.html
Don’t Bite the Hand that Feeds You
While the model rules for professional conduct seem pretty straight forward and structured to deter unethical behavior in the courts among both judges and lawyers, in practice it is a remarkable failure.  The rules serve only to act as mere “window dressing” in most situations dealing with matrimonial and child custody cases.  Very rarely, if ever, does one hear of an attorney in this area of law reporting a judge or lawyer to any oversight or “appropriate professional authority” because doing so could be adverse to that persons livelihood and also may be hypocritical of many to report such instances as they may also engage in the same behaviors on occasion.  Many of the courts regularly appearing lawyers who practice in and out of the same courtrooms will almost never report such behaviors as they have to practice in front of the same judges and the same opposing lawyers on multiple occasions.  This creates situations where attorneys who may want to do the right thing by reporting such violations are put in a place where they are forced to weigh the possible retaliation by judges and players that could adversely affect them and future clients.  The other concerns for them are the forms of blackballing by peers that sometimes goes on against those lawyers blowing the whistle within this industry. 

Accountability of the Courts and Recourse
The hurdles to address areas of misconduct are many times insurmountable, especially to parents, due to many of the entities designed to investigate having been proven to be ineffective and shielded by a cumbersome process and system of procedures that filter out many legitimate problems and cases of wrongdoing brought to the attention of such groups.  Not to mention, most of these groups in many cases do not have the authority to initiate investigations. But let’s be clear, many such groups are made up of the peers of folks within the same professional community as those that are reported to them for violations of misconduct.  Thus when these oversight committees are cut from the same cloth, in the same geographic regions many times, the odds are stacked against folks who bring legitimate complaints.  The expectation for accountability for any wrongdoings and professional misconduct by judges, lawyers and other players in the industry is handed another easy out by means of a discouraging process in place.  

Judicial Accountability and Ethics Enforcement
Many states have had outside and independent assessments done as to examine efforts and report findings of systems set up to dissuade corruption. The reported findings in many states are quite troubling and disappointing.  The Center for Public Integrity issues reports speaking to this point and informing the public of its findings.  In 2015 the State of New York’s “Judicial Accountability” and “Ethics Enforcement Agencies” both received the failing grade of an “F”.  Such findings offer little solace to any person, within the industry or outside of it, who would venture to report violations of professional or judicial misconduct on the part of lawyers and/or judges.
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FINDINGS AVAILABLE AT HTTPS://WWW.PUBLICINTEGRITY.ORG/2015/11/09/18477/NEW-YORK-GETS-D-GRADE-2015-STATE-INTEGRITY-INVESTIGATION
The State of New York’s 2015 Integrity Investigation Report Card put out by The Center for Public Integrity

​The current structure of these ordeals in the courts along with the tools of the trade favor protections put in place to shield the wrongdoings and ethical abuses of judges and lawyers on many levels.  Ultimately this creates a system where abuses of power and authority prosper at the expense of parents and children while sustaining an industry where profits seem to come before people.

 
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​Original Source: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/a-broken-system-misconduct-and-whistle-blowing_us_57c1d283e4b00c54015e15b1

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Big Bang Theory actress opens up about co-parenting.
If more parents felt this way about putting their children first, our society would be in a better place. Go Mayim! 
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MAYIM’S VLOG #7: DIVORCE
Mayim gets candid about her divorce, and how she manages her kids and her feelingsIn some ways, Mayim is a very public and visible person. She’s on a top-rated TV show, she’s outspoken in this space and in others on many issues ranging from faith to parenting to women in culture. But she also tries to maintain her privacy and that of her kids…so she’s also private, especially about her home life.
One of the things Mayim has never really spoken publicly about is her divorce. She and her ex split up three years ago, and there have been a lot of challenges, as you might expect, that they’ve encountered. How should they talk about each other in front of the kids? How they do spend time together? And how should they keep their energy focused on the children?
Now she’s getting personal and sharing with you some of the things she’s figured out about how to co-parent with her ex. From continuing to be part of her ex’s family to putting the kids first, Mayim tells you a bit about what her divorced life is like. Of course every relationship and every end-of-relationship is different, but she hopes that those of you who are going through a divorce or have already divorced may find this video helpful, comforting or interesting. For more ideas and pieces of wisdom – to take or to share with others who need them – feel free to “Grok With Us” and answer the questions below.

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Public Service Announcements (PSA) and Documentary are in the near future.

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​A great deal is happening on all fronts of this fight against Parental Alienation, our family courts and mental health systems. Change is coming and in some cases it’s already here.
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JUDGE GETS IT! CHILDREN TAKEN FROM ALIENATING PARENT! 

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UPDATE: Children separated from mother for 90 days while they are in counseling to deal with the extreme brainwashing.​
See court documents detailing the egregious abuses by the mother.





A mini Documentary on Parental Alienation using an actual episode of Desperate Housewives to highlight how easy a parent can hijack a child's mind and heart. This is, as we know, an epidemic. The ending is powerful as it shows how separated/divorced parents should speak to their children about the separation. For those of you who want to begin to get an idea of how easy it to brainwash a child to not only hate and fear another parent but to make false allegations of abuse either toward them or the aligned parent watch this video. ​

Using a storyline from an episode of Desperate Housewives, "Always in Control" (S08-Ep7), Joe Barrow walks us through...

Posted by Joe Barrow on Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Watch Parental Alienation Documentary on YouTube



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Memories of a Monster: A closer look at Parental Alienation


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Are you an alienated/targeted parent and would like to raise awareness and promote change?
Have you had dealings with Commissioner Deborah Daniel or the mediators in this courthouse please

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Christine "Christy" McAlister Garrison

3 Children by 3 different fathers (All fathers Christy chose have same birth-date April 14): all have limited contact with their children. According to her current husband's ex-wife, she is also alienating her two stepchildren from their biological mother. Listen to the mother of Christy's stepchildren here
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My nightmare begins with my ex. After being divorced 12 years she decides to brainwash our daughter against me, my current wife and our three daughters at home. Why? Narcissistic injury and fear of abandonment.
1. She believes it was me who reported her 24 year old son was dating a minor (16)...again. It wasn't I could care less. 
2. Megan had asked to come live with me, began calling my current wife mom (on her own, but we later spoke to Megan about it being okay to refer to my wife be her first name if that made things easier on her) and her relationship with our family was amazing. Christy couldn't handle that.

Christy's mother, Nancy Snider also has 3 children by 2 or 3 different fathers (the stories change so impossible to know the truth) All the fathers have limited to no contact with their children. Christy's sister, Michelle Edmiston Tacorante also has 3 different children by three different men. The fathers have NO contact with their children. In the cases of Christy, Michelle and Nancy the children are encourage to have a relationship with the current men in their lives only.






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