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On April 14, 2015 Megan showed up to surprise me for my birthday.
We saw her about 5 times. The last time was in June on Father's Day. We all went deep sea fishing...below are pictures of how happy she was to be with us. 
It's now December and we don't know when we'll see her again.

Epiloque


The story of Parental Alienation only ends one way: tragically. 

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April 18 2015: A brief reunion, A special moment. Everyone was having a great time. No one else wanted to accompany me on a food run to Stater Bros. Megan volunteered to go with me. As we were leaving, one by one my other daughters decided they wanted to go as well.
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A few years ago when we first began this fight we found a well-known and respected local therapist. She is a revered professional with a long waiting list of clients who wish to see her. It took weeks to get in to see her.
When our appointment date finally arrived, my wife Tammy and I had hardly begun describing our ordeal to the therapist she raised her hand signalling us to pause. 

"Does your ex have a personality disorder?" she asked.
My wife and I looked at each other in disbelief.  I was elated beyond words. She gets it! I thought to myself. 
Of course she gets it. How could she not? How could any one with a a modicum of common sense not be able to see through this mess?
I grabbed my wife's hand and let myself lean back onto the plush couch. It was worth the wait to see her.  This wonderful therapist was going to save our daughter.
I will never forget what she said next. 
"This doesn't end well for you."
Our nightmare apparently wasn't over.
"I've had clients armed with expensive attorneys, stacks of evidence this high," she motioned with her hands,  "and viable witnesses and police reports showing court order violations, and declarations from prominent figures describing them as perfectly fit parents. But none of that 
mattered. None of it made a difference. This ends bad for you." 

Months later, as we found ourselves entrenched in this Rabbit Hole I realize she was right. This doesn't end well for me. But even worse, now I know just how bad this ends for our daughter Megan.  More on this later...


Our family has Megan back in our lives only because I violated a court order by Commissioner Deborah Daniel ordering that I do NOT communicate with my daughter. Can you imagine? When people ask why there is an order that I not initiate contact I struggle, just as much as our daughter must, with how to answer because there is no valid or justifiable reason. I wish there were, so then I would at least have something to work with, something to fix, or a goal to work towards. But there isn't. There is only my ex-wife, Christy Garrison being what she vehemently accuses me of being; controlling and manipulating. Oour daughter Megan started saying that about me at about 11 years old. The sick irony that alienators control everything and manipulate everyone around them doesn't escape targeted parents. And if targeted parents, like myself ARE those things, we are awfully, terrible at it. 
I know most people are, like I was before this ordeal, under the impression that we have a family court system which, although may not be perfect, works toward getting to the truth and truly aims to do get things right and in the best interest of children. My response is that there isn't a valid or justifiable reason that Commissioner Deborah Daniel ruled that I only get to see our daughter for one day a month for 8 hours (and only if our daughter agrees). I know the answer doesn't make sense to many or at the very least leads more questions. 
So when Comm. Daniel ordered that I not initiate contact with our daughter I refused. I continually text her and call. I dare my ex Christy to claim I am violating a court order by letting our daughter know that I love her, that I miss her, or sending pictures of our family. I text and call Megan often. Assuring her that I love her. That we all love her. I would end text messages by telling her "we all miss you mamas."  Sometimes I send videos of her sisters at their award ceremonies, birthdays, outings, and our many family adventures. 
On occasion, I would get a response and my wife and I would celebrate. Even though more often than not the responses are brief. 
We are repairing the damage done by your incompetent vindictive Commissioner Deborah Daniel of the San Bernardino Family Court House. We are not the first family who suffered due to Commissioner Daniel, Mediator Pietrina Termini, and court Psychologist Beth McGuire and am not going to be the last. Something needs to be done about this disturbed judge. Hiding her in Family Court was the wrong call.

Below are pictures of our brief reunion where our daughter went against the alienator(s) and visited us on a few occasions.  She seemed to enjoy being with us as much as we enjoyed having her back. But she paid a price.
LATEST UPDATE: August 15, 2015
Our family has had no contact with her since Father's Day, June 21, 2015

FATHER'S DAY DEEP SEA FISHING TRIP
June 21 2015 Go to Facebook Album
This was just a beautiful day. Our daughter Megan wants to have a relationship with her loving family but it will never be allowed.
Does our daughter look happy? 
Does it make any sense that we have't seen her since?
Megan did something which in her eyes might have been a way out of the dysfunctional web that she's caught in and which would have allowed her to be able to slowly work her way back into our lives. Unfortunately, it didn't work. And may be part of the reason we don't see her anymore.

FISHING OFF THE HUNTINGTON 
BEACH PIER May 31, 2015
We do what we do and that's have fun family time. That's it. We appreciate every moment--we always have--but especially now when dealing with alienation. 
I love our daughters more than any words could ever come close to expressing. Who in thier right mind would want to come between that? No one in their right mind. Alienators have severe personality disorders which drive their behaviors. They need help. This disease of Parental Alienation must be eradicated. 


MEGAN GRADUATES A YEAR EARLY

MEGAN SPENDS THE NIGHT FOR FIRST TIME SINCE OCTOBER 2012 --but pays the price.

MEGAN SURPRISES ME ON MY BIRTHDAY April 14, 2015

At the time of  this last posting, Aug 15, 2015...we haven't seen Megan since Father's Day, June 21, 2015.  

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