Christy Garrison is not only alienating my 14 year old daughter from me, her biological father; She is also alienating her two step-children from their biological mother.
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Christine Garrison, Christy Garrison, Christy McAlister
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Christy has three different children by three different fathers. I am one of those fathers. All three fathers have the same birthday, April 14.
Christy has gone to court for custody for all 3 of her children. She has used the court system to keep the fathers out of "her" children's as much as she could get away with. I fought back. This website is about documenting the intentional damaging of a once loving relationship between a father and his daughter. It happens all too often. One parent for unjustifiable reasons begins poisoning a child against the other parent. The desired result is to hurt the other parent; the actual result is that it does irreparable damage to a child. With the help of a deeply flawed and defective court system it ends in the removal of a very loving, healthy, fit, and compassionate father from the life of our daughter because he fought back and injured a scorn,vindictive woman who shows evidence of a personality disorder. |
Battling the Parental Alienating and Custody Interference by Christine Garrison
This is our second round with Christy keeping Megan away from our family. The first was during Christmas time in 2010, we opened Christmas gift in March 2011. Here is a taste of what an alienator sounds like. During the first round of alienation audio recordings you hear Christy sounding kinda co-operative and somewhat normal. This is because we had begun working with an evaluator that I had ask the courts to assign to look into what was going on. Dr Amy Miller had been recommended by some of my professors from my MFT program at Chapman University. Another incentive for Christy to begin sharing and being co-operative was a pending court hearing, but it was the actual non-confidential psychologist report that got Christy and Mike on board in a heartbeat.
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The 2nd Round (2012- current): Listen to her...is this the voice of a scared victim or a triggered, scorned woman?
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Our 1st Round (2010-2011): Christy McAlister apologizes and acknowledges alienating behavior after Psychologist report and before we go to trial...2010-2011
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Very telling audio of Christy.
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Christy,
These are just some of the major concerns with Christy's behavior.
Below, I address more specific issues.
August 10, 2012: Christy interferes. Brings entourage to gymnastics to keep me from picking April up.
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2. New York/Joby situation
3. February 24, 2012 Incident
No. Event Evidence
1. Christy threatens to take time away from me for being a concerned parent. Text Audio
2. April’s letter to me. letter
4. Text Messages on road trip Text
5. Implies that I don’t love April, nor that I believe that she is a good child. Text/Audio
6. Contact interference: No phone number for April for last 3 months Letter Sept 28 Letter/Audio
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9. Sharing all information regarding court proceedings... Text/
10. She can get April to visit when she wants. Oct 11, and Nov 1st
1. Allowing April to make the choice, places her in a severe loyalty bind. Regardless if April wanted to visit or not, if April decides to visit with me she still has to return to her mother’s home and deal with the ramifications of not “letting her mother down.” April has shared that she is made to feel uncomfortable by her mother and Kaylee when she returns from visits.
2. All reasons for not wanting to be with me are vague or are not reasonable arguments for not wanting to see parents. With the exception of the most recent allegations of “Peeping Tom”
3. Scheduling events around visitation times. See examples.
4. Christy, April or Kaylee pretending to physical or emotionally save April. (Kaylee sit on the floor April, Mike approaching me, hugging April prolong periods of time before she comes with me,
5. Listening in (and contribute line of questioning) to my conversations with April.
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These are just some of the major concerns with Christy's behavior.
Below, I address more specific issues.
August 10, 2012: Christy interferes. Brings entourage to gymnastics to keep me from picking April up.
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- Christy tells April that I will never love her as much as I love Stephanie (my older daughter from a previous relationship.
- Christy continually texts or calls April when she is with me and our family to ask when she is coming back home to her, if she wants to come back earlier than agreed upon, and that they have plans, stuff to talk about or a surprise for her. (Click Here)
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- Interferes with court ordered time. Always with the threat of court, taking more time away, ruining my relationship with April. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
- Took April out of gymnastics 2 times now. Jan 8, 2011 and in August 2012. Both times there were numerous reasons stated by Christy and April. Both times April eventually goes back.
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- Christy agrees the changes mind about letting me see April (See Text)
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- Christy claims April "overhears" discussions about me. (Christy Quotes)
- Says things like: "April is a good girl." "I am proud of her." "Wish you would see that." " If you loved her..." Christy Quotes
- DEC 25- 26, 2010 Christmas Incident to forget
- Christy says, "I will take you back to court. I will take you back to court. and I will take more time away from you!" a little over a month after we agreed on a fair and detailed court order. (See Transcript)
- August , 2012: Christy refuses to let me talk with April. (See text)
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- April, 2011: Christy listening in and coaching April
- April 1, 2011: Tries to keep me from therapy. Tells therapist I cancelled, while calling texting me that it is not necessary.
- Therapy was my suggestion that Christy was adamantly against
- See e-mail where she claims she came up with idea on Dec 22, 2010
- Took 3 months to set appointment.
- Denied me therapist information
- Tried to keep me from going. (See April 1, 2011)
- Christy attends sporadically and only when she wants to mislead/misdirect.
- Only wants to come in when she is concerned about something she has done:
2. New York/Joby situation
3. February 24, 2012 Incident
- Calls in ahead to manipulate and to convolute situation
- Sets "emergency" appointments after incident in NYC for 30 days later. But doesn't tell me about the emergency appointment for April on July 6, 2012
- Calls and sets appointments on days I can not attend to claim I don't go
- Makes appointments and doesn't notify me
No. Event Evidence
1. Christy threatens to take time away from me for being a concerned parent. Text Audio
2. April’s letter to me. letter
4. Text Messages on road trip Text
5. Implies that I don’t love April, nor that I believe that she is a good child. Text/Audio
6. Contact interference: No phone number for April for last 3 months Letter Sept 28 Letter/Audio
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9. Sharing all information regarding court proceedings... Text/
10. She can get April to visit when she wants. Oct 11, and Nov 1st
1. Allowing April to make the choice, places her in a severe loyalty bind. Regardless if April wanted to visit or not, if April decides to visit with me she still has to return to her mother’s home and deal with the ramifications of not “letting her mother down.” April has shared that she is made to feel uncomfortable by her mother and Kaylee when she returns from visits.
2. All reasons for not wanting to be with me are vague or are not reasonable arguments for not wanting to see parents. With the exception of the most recent allegations of “Peeping Tom”
3. Scheduling events around visitation times. See examples.
4. Christy, April or Kaylee pretending to physical or emotionally save April. (Kaylee sit on the floor April, Mike approaching me, hugging April prolong periods of time before she comes with me,
5. Listening in (and contribute line of questioning) to my conversations with April.
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