Commissioner Deborah Daniel, Shirley Stutson, Susan Bailes, Pietrina Termini: Does this look like I am alienating myself?
“Hey, my world, our world, its going to be an honest one. My world is going to be one where truth is strengthened and falsehood is recognized and marginalized.”                                                                                                                                    Pamela Meyer, How to Spot A Liar
Shirley Stutson MFT, Pietrina Termini, Susan Bailes, MFT, Dr. Beth McGuire, and Commissioner Deborah Daniel: Please read carefully. This is the only family that an impressionable young girl has left and there are already repercussions. Honorable Marsha Slough are you aware that this is happening on your watch?

The Main Alienators: 

Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. ~ Ephesians 5:11
THE ACTIONS OF THESE PEOPLE ARE HORRENDOUS:
I don't blame our daughter for hating me now, her desire to love me never stood a chance.
In order to get the full scope of the nightmare that we are going through, you need to know the people who are at the helm, driving the alienating behavior. These people are the main contributors affecting my relationship with April. Christy being the main one, everyone else (some I have never even met) just parrots her assertions and allegations. Christy claims that every man who has ever been in her life has been abusive towards her, including her father, who she (and her mother) claim was abusive. I wonder if he really was abusive or if he was also alienated from Christy and he is somewhere out there missing his daughter? All children deserve to have both parents in their lives. The things these people have done are in most cases illegal and, in all cases, morally reprehensible. 

These people live in the same house as April (Megan):

(Click on their names. Click on Erica's name for evidence of drug use and underage drinking in the home)
Christy: Megan's mom
This is our second round with this level of extreme alienating behavior. The first time Christy begged to settle, apologized, and blamed it on Megan and Kaylee. But that was due to psych report and pending trial. 


Mike: Step-dad
Major custody interference, name calling, disparaging, taunting...all documented. 
Kaylee: Older sister
A Court-Ordered psychologist Report states she is a major contributor to issue. 

Erica: Party teen mom
Gloats that she is with Megan 24/7 and an "AWESOME INFLUENCE"  Click Here and you decide
  • Christy, her mother and the main alienator
  • Mike, Christy's husband, Megan's step-dad
  • Kaylee, Megan's 20 year sister old co-alienator
  • Erica, teen-mom, friends with Kaylee
  • Josh, Megan's 24 year old brother. (As far as I know, Josh doesn't contribute to the alienating behavior)
Also living in the home or have:
  • Xxxxx, Josh's 16 year old live-in girlfriend. (17 now?)
  • Corinne, a 14 year old runaway who was Josh's first live-in girlfriend.(moved out)
  • Uncle Mike, Christy's brother, alleged parole and drug addict
Christy and the others mentioned above have played a significant role to what has happened to my relationship with Megan.
Note all the horrible things said about me and then ask yourself what an impressionable child would think about me and about herself as well. The one thing these people seem to forget is that when they attack me, they attack a part of who she is. 

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This is what I have to deal with. It is craziness cubed. It is nothing short of evil. I have to go through so much hell just to continue to be a part of our daughter's life. When they are successful at interfering or have otherwise made progress towards alienating me from Megan, I am mocked and they celebrate. No one should have to go through this much. Especially not a child. 

Christy, Alienating Parent
"I will take you back to court and she (Megan) will 
say what she needs to say!" 
Listen to Audio below
CLICK ON LINKS TO GO TO DOCUMENTATION OR EVENT:

Christy's specific behaviors that have negatively effected my relationship with Megan. Click Here 

More quotes from an Christy: Click Here
"You wanna go to battle, we'll go to battle!"
"You cant force someone to love you or like you, you should know that. Please if you truely care for April  let her come to you!!"
"...she continues to express her dislike of you. I suggest you put your opinions and ill feelings of me aside and try to.work out a relationship with me and my husband. This would result in a better relationship with Megan."
"Love your daughter, Joe, you need to love your daughter," said to me in front of Megan
“I am her mother, not Tammy okay! She calls her mother because I allow that!"
Megan no longer calls Tammy mom.
What is allowed in her home:
Live in underage girlfriends for her 24 year old. (As young as 14)
Encourages Megan to be disrespectful to her father and now step-mother.
Negative and disparaging  talk about Megan's father.
Dishonesty and Lies by Omission
Partying Teen mom
Fugitive Gang banger boyfriend
Drug use and Minors Drinking
Some of the things Christy has accused me of (Note, some are felonies):
Christy and Mike don't understand that the name calling does nothing to me. It's, for the lack of a better word, silly. What is disturbing is the damage that is being done to Megan. Everything listed below has been said in front of Megan, who for 13 years loved me immensely...
  • Harassing
  • Bullying
  • Verbally Abusive
  • Kidnapping
  • Selfish
  • Monster
  • Crappy Dad
  • Liar
  • Loser
  • Alcohol abuse
  • Sexual Allegation
  • Physically Abusive
  • Emotionally Abusive
  • Immature
  • Trespassing
  • Intimidation
  • Aggressive behavior
  • Lying to police
  • Controlling
  • Manipulative
  • Ridiculous
Yet, Christy claims that she is encouraging and facilitating a positive relationship between me and April. For the record: I have an impeccably clean record, nothing has ever been filed or pursued against me. The false allegations of being a Peeping Tom were dismissed by CPS as they saw the convenience of the timing and circumstances of the accusations. See Blog 

Kaylee Godley, Megan's older sister 
We  are "AWESOME INFLUENCES" 

From Psychologist's Report
"4. Identification of each non -biological family member's role in the parenting of Megan. At this time it strongly appears Megan's older half sister acts in a negatively influential manner with Megan, clearly advancing a divisive agenda between Megan and her two parents. This is unacceptable and does not serve either of her homes in a positive manner."
Megan's 20 year old sister. She is allowed to drink and smoke pot at home and post videos of herself doing it. Kaylee was my step-daughter at one time and up until when the alienation started used to come hang out with us. Now she hates me. There is a court-ordered Psychologist's report noting that she is a driving force in the alienating behavior. 
  • Burps, laughs and makes annoying noises into the phone when I am talking to Megan.
  • Told Megan to sit on the floor and that she didn't have to come with me on my court-ordered scheduled pickup time. 
Quotes and posts by Kaylee:
  • “Megan doesn’t look like her dad”
  •  “Tammy is not her mom, Christy is her mom.”
  • “Save your bs your nothing to me :)”
  • “YOU can’t hurt my family anymore joe :) and your mad about it! HAHA you can’t contro; what we do or say and that’s what really makes you do the things that you have done.”
  • "Ew!!!! What kind of father walks in to the bathroom while his 14 year old daughter is showering and is fully developed and stays there refusing to leave. Then she keeps telling him to leave and he gets closer to the shower?!! How scary!!"
One question: Until about 3 years ago, Kaylee loved hanging out with me & our family. What happened? (Click Here)

Mike, Step-dad

Mike has 2 children: A 14 year old boy and a 10 year old girl. Both these children are also being alienated from their biological mother.                                                           -------------->>>>
See all videos of interference and alienating/ disparaging behavior.
Mike and his ex-wife, Sheri Glendenning, have 2 biological children. They live with Mike and Christy. Listen to Sheri talk about how Christy is alienating Sheri's biological children from their own mother. CLICK HERE

Erica, Teen mom
Kaylee's partying friend  

Please note:  I have never met Erica and I no idea who she is except she is Kaylee’s friend who had a child when she was a teenager and now lives with Christy and what I see in her videos. 
Her claims of being with Megan 24/7 and being an "AWESOME INFLUENCES" are concerning. However, after viewing these videos of drug and alcohol use by minors they become disturbing.

Quotes from Erica directed at me:
"Im with (Megan) 24/7 and from what i hear YOURE the one she wants to get away from… "

"We are AWESOME INFLUENCES" she means Kaylee as well. 

“She doesnt want anything to do with you. GET THAT THROUGH YOUR HEAD DUH.”

"Im with [Megan] 24/7 and from what i hear YOURE the one she wants to get away from… "

"Tired of hearing from [Megan] how crappy you are."

“If i were her id never want to see you again.” 

“[Megan] im sorry yor dad is such a embarrassment.” 

“And joe, if you had a brain at all youd see that that text was about them dating, not anything else.”

 “YOU are Megan's problem. get over it already” 

“She doesnt want anything to do with you. GET THAT THROUGH YOUR HEAD DUH.”

 “Everyone knows you’re a abuser and a horrible father.”

 “Let it go and there wont be an issue.” 

“You’re the on making a problem here.”

“make sure you know your facts before you go running your mouth, lol. And we are AMAZING INFLUENCES.” 

Cori, Josh's (24) first live-in Girlfriend when she was 14.

Picture
Underage smoking at Christy's backyard parties.
Corrinne, was 14 (or 15) when she was allowed to move in (with Josh who was 18 or 19) to Christy's house. Corrinne was always good to Megan and seemed (for a runaway) to be levelheaded. 
However, she obviously lacks an understanding of parental alienation.
I have only met Cori on a few occasions, yet, read what she says about me. Are we beginning to see a pattern?
“You do realize that it’s Megan that doesn’t was to see you and not the parent keeping her from you, right? It’s called being an abusive parent, not parental alienation.”
From: Corinne
"First of all, if you want to try to make a point you might want to make sure you have your facts right. Josh is actually 23, and the girl is 17. And no, I was not 14 when I moved in with Christy. I was 15, and I had nowhere else to go, because my dad was abusive just like you. If you are ignorant enough to have to ask me what you have done to be abusive, then that's your own problem. I'm not choosing sides between you and Christy, I always have and always will have Megan's best interest in mind."

From Joe Barrow
Corinne, so far no one has been able to say what I have done that was or is so abusive to Megan. That's what is baffling to everyone. I am glad you have Megan's best interest in mind. Please read more about parental alienation and you will see what is going on with Megan. There are at least 6 psychologist/ therapist who have looked at what is going on and they see it as such, I don't think that they are wrong. That being said, Cori, I know you were good to Megan when you were living with them. Thank you for that.


From: Corinne:
Of course they are going to say that's what it is, when they are only getting your side of the story. I asked April privately when we were alone what was really going on. You're right, I do not know exactly what you do, but the fact is Megan is scared of you. You have always been emotionally abusive to everyone around you, and you were physically abusive at one point to. That's why I believe her when she says it's not her mother telling her to say these things, but that she is legitimately afraid of you.

Uncle Mike, Christy's brother.
He may have a different dad as well.

Christy's (sometimes) live in brother. He is allegedly  in and out of jail and has issues with drugs and alcohol. Again, only met him 2 times in 15 years yet note what he says about me.
I have met Mike one maybe two times. He was out on parole and showed at Christy's moms' house in Sunland and there was a huge scene. Apparently he was not welcomed... and apparently, not the greatest speller.

Michael Mcalister · 2 mutual friends

"i alomost forgot u where the one in big bear beating on my sister and mentaly destoyded her.its funny how you seem to have shifted the path of distruction in Megans way.honestly i dont know why u are concered with Megans bissness and not respecting her privecey.its realy ashame u feel the need to put her personal text massages on fb the ask people what thay think when there are some issue u still have not step up like a man and expaned to the faily like why where u hitting your wife.////IS THIS BEHAVIOR OK EVERYONE????OR HEY EVERY I MENTALY ABUSE {Megan}....joe ive hear bad things about u so please dont point your finger at my family anymore u have done enough............"

John, the Bully ex-BF
NOTE: I HAVE NEVER MET NOR TALKED TO THIS BOY. This is in response to my asking if it is statutory rape for a 24 year old man to date a 16 year old girl.
7/23/2012 JOHN B. POST TO ME
"joe y u got to start stuff with faimlys huh . like leave my faimly an everyone else is faimly out of this all u are is a peace of shit an beat people so shut up please"
20 minutes ago • Like • 1

Sharon Woodrum Bryan
the Bully's mom and the mother of the 16 year old girl who is dating Christy's 24 year old son Josh.
NOTE: I HAVE NEVER MET HIS WOMAN. But again, see how she speaks about me...

Click to go to her cell phone call to me. and now Click here for her latest Hate Posts
She works with Christy. Mother of John B., the bully and of Fxxxx, the 16 year old girl who lives with Josh (24) in Christy's home.
"Because you are a piece of shit mother-fucking dad! And... "