Commissioner Debra Daniels
Incompetent, uninformed, or lapses of JUDGEment?
The main things that will be addressed in this page are how biased a judge can be against a father, how a judge can make matters worse by irresponsibly chosen words or advice, and how due process isn't followed, and there is a presumption of guilt against the targeted parent without any supporting evidence. 
All of the above will be documented by court transcripts, reports and orders. This is a major deficit in the court system's handling of these types of cases. Still, what is more disturbing is the arrogance and demeaning way in which the targeted parent who is usually the loving fit and more stable parent is mistreated. As if going through the alienation of one's child isn't devastating enough.
On This Page:
  • The Ultimatum.
  • The Clearing of the Courtroom.
  • Dear disturbed parent, Let me point out a loophole.
  • How the "Silver Bullet" effects a judge's sense of justice. 
  • Disregard of due process

Judge: There's a loophole in my court order

     In January 2012, I finally had a fair parenting plan supported by a court-order. We had beaten Parental Alienation. After a long and arduous ordeal  --a life draining roller coaster ride that consisted of mostly lows and relatively few  highs-- I, no, our entire family, extended family members, coaches, teachers, and friends all breathed a collective sigh of relieve for our daughter. We had dodged a bullet. A silver bullet with Parental Alienation stamped all over it. A family killer. 

Common sense, perseverance, truth prevailed. Afterwards my wife and I had often wondered how often that happens. We concluded not often enough.  

 I stand by me assertion that no single alienator can fully alienate a child from a parent without the help of an incompetent, irresponsible or un-informed judge, therapist, mediator. 
     This page will go into detail and point out specifically the exact time and words that Commissioner Daniels issued that sent everything that we had worked for completely back to where we were at the beginning.

 It made a court order obsolete not because anything changed regarding the order itself, but because it allowed Christy to place the burden back onto a then 13 year old. Her words went not only against common sense but also against  the recommendations made by Dr. Amy Miller in her report.

Commissioner Debra Daniels: Hey folks! Here's a loophole in my court order! 
We saw this coming 3 days before when Commissioner Debra Daniels said, No law enforcement officer is going to physically force a 13 year old to go with her dad.
My wife and I sat flabbergasted. There is just no better word. Flabbergasted!
After, Commissioner Daniel ruled correctly, that the Ex Parte for an emergency removal of all my visitations was without merit, that there wasn't any emergency to speak of, she couldn't just leave it at that and keep her mouth shut. She had to add the words that would negatively impact a 13 year old impressionable girl. With those few ill-thought out words she set us back and went against what is to most intelligent adults common sense and against a court-ordered psychologist's report stating that a significant part of the problem was that an adolescent had been