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Joe - Tammy Barrow <xxxxx@gmail.com>
Report for Commissioner Daniel
Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net> Mon, Apr 8, 2013 at 12:48 PM
To: Christy Garrison <xxxxxxxxx@msn.com>, Joe Barrow <xxxxxxxx@gmail.com>
I do not have a report ready. Carol Teitelbaum said she sent me a summary. I have not received it as yet. I would prefer to read her summary or talk with her before completing a report.
--
Beth A. McGuire, Ph.D.
Psychologist PSY 10520
521 W. Citrus Avenue
Redlands, CA 92373-4625
Office 909-793-7064
Cell 909-831-6377
Fax 909-793-9485
Report for Commissioner Daniel
Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net> Mon, Apr 8, 2013 at 12:48 PM
To: Christy Garrison <xxxxxxxxx@msn.com>, Joe Barrow <xxxxxxxx@gmail.com>
I do not have a report ready. Carol Teitelbaum said she sent me a summary. I have not received it as yet. I would prefer to read her summary or talk with her before completing a report.
--
Beth A. McGuire, Ph.D.
Psychologist PSY 10520
521 W. Citrus Avenue
Redlands, CA 92373-4625
Office 909-793-7064
Cell 909-831-6377
Fax 909-793-9485
Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Megan
Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Fri, Mar 22, 2013 at 5:22 PMTo: Joe Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>
This case is beginning to remind me of a case where I was the children's therapist and there was a child custody evaluator involved. The evaluator and I were involved with the Court for probably two years. Each report we wrote took away more and more of mother's time with the children. Unfortunately, over the course of these two years, we had three judges. It felt like starting over each time we got a new Judge. It was like he/she either didn't read the file or it didn't have the impact that getting the evidence first hand did. I understand that it is clearly more impactful if you gather the evidence yourself rather than have a file dropped on your desk.
I would like to ask that you make a chronology of the emails, reports, videos, FB postings, etc. that you believe I should read and digest. If you can provide copies of these items, please do.
In the meantime, with alienation cases as with any clinical case, you have to start where the child is. I don't have a magical way to do away with past experiences. When the air has been cleared as much as possible by having the child tell how things look to her and having the parent listen well and express their understanding (NOT agreement), then I try to get the child to start afresh. I try to build in as many positive interactions between the child and the alienated parent. Hence, I ask you to listen to Megan's version of events and let her know you listened and understood what she feels. Accept that there is her story, your story and the truth. This listening/understanding/accepting and trying to have as many positive interactions as possible replenishes your emotional bank with her. I have tried to set up you and Mom arranging for Megan to see her sister because I believed this would again been seen as a positive gesture by you toward Megan and keep adding to that emotional bank.
--
Beth A. McGuire, Ph.D.
Psychologist PSY 10520
521 W. Citrus Avenue
Redlands, CA 92373-4625
Office 909-793-7064
Cell 909-831-6377
Fax 909-793-9485
______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Mon, Mar 25, 2013 at 9:36 AM
To: Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Beth,
I am gathering up information that you asked for. In the meantime, I hope you realize that Christy's last e-mail was about one thing and one thing only--she wants Megan back at ACE.
Megan has been unhappy with her choice to transfer to Riverside Prep. Megan has been complaining and crying about it. Christy is unable to say no to Megan. Notice how Christy now speaks disapprovingly of and disparages the administration, teachers, and the school in an attempt to justify taking Megan out of Riverside Prep. My guess is that Christy will switch Megan back to ACE with or without my support.
But more importantly, does it sound familiar?
Joe
[Quoted text hidden]
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Joe and Tammy Barrow
www.EmpowerMeJournals.com
www.April25.org
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Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Mon, Mar 25, 2013 at 4:13 PM
To: Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Attached are two text message exchanges between me and Megan. My notes are in red. They are examples of how Megan has learned to get what she wants. You’ll see how it doesn’t work with me. The problem is that Christy readily, buys into it when Megan says that she is afraid of me even though these claims have been dismissed by Dr. Amy Miller and Shirley Stutson.
Keep in mind this was just when Megan wanted to hang out with her girlfriends, now Megan is heavily infatuated with boys to a harmful degree. Megan’s symptoms that Christy speaks about in her last e-mail are not due to anything going on with me or missing her sisters --Megan could easily persuade Christy to bring her to visit her sisters at any time-- it has everything to do with the havoc going on in her romantic life. It is a disastrous mess in which Megan will not come out of unscathed.
Joe
On Fri, Mar 22, 2013 at 5:22 PM, Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net> wrote:
2 attachments
Megan acts up with notes for beth.docx
Megan acts up until remembers warts removed for Beth.docx
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27KJoe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Tue, Apr 2, 2013 at 1:28 AM
To: Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Beth,
I have been in the process of collecting as much documentation of what we have been going through. It is a monumental task.Our therapist, Carol Teiltebaum agreed that to sending you everything would overwhelm you. Still, I believe it all to be relative as it paints a clear picture of not only my relationship with Megan but what is happening with Christy. Because of time constraints I have decided to send what I have gathered so far.
Here is a link. Again, it is overwhelming. The fact that no one will really ever takes the time to look and examine all the evidence has worked to Christy's advantage and, unfortunately to Megan's detriment.
I also believe that even a brief conversation with our therapist would bring some light into the situation. She is very familiar with what we are dealing with. Her number is 760-xxx-xxxx.
Here is a link to the documentation that you requested. http://picturesforbeth.weebly.com/
It is a work in progress. I will continue to add documentation...[
--
Joe and Tammy Barrow
www.EmpowerMeJournals.com
www.April25.org
_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Beth <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Tue, Apr 2, 2013 at 5:49 AM
To: Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>
I would be happy to talk to Carol. Yes, I believe if you write that you authorize me to talk with Carol and authorize me to write a report for Court, sign it, scan it in, and send it, that works. I would do them separately. Faxed signatures work so I believe scanned ones do as well. Thanks.
Beth
_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Tue, Apr 2, 2013 at 9:54 AM
To: Beth <bmcgphd@keyway.net>
Beth,
Here is a consent form to share information between you and Carol TeitelbaumJoe
2 attachmentsconsent forms 001.jpg
1879Kconsent forms 002.jpg
1860K
Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Fri, Mar 22, 2013 at 5:22 PMTo: Joe Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>
This case is beginning to remind me of a case where I was the children's therapist and there was a child custody evaluator involved. The evaluator and I were involved with the Court for probably two years. Each report we wrote took away more and more of mother's time with the children. Unfortunately, over the course of these two years, we had three judges. It felt like starting over each time we got a new Judge. It was like he/she either didn't read the file or it didn't have the impact that getting the evidence first hand did. I understand that it is clearly more impactful if you gather the evidence yourself rather than have a file dropped on your desk.
I would like to ask that you make a chronology of the emails, reports, videos, FB postings, etc. that you believe I should read and digest. If you can provide copies of these items, please do.
In the meantime, with alienation cases as with any clinical case, you have to start where the child is. I don't have a magical way to do away with past experiences. When the air has been cleared as much as possible by having the child tell how things look to her and having the parent listen well and express their understanding (NOT agreement), then I try to get the child to start afresh. I try to build in as many positive interactions between the child and the alienated parent. Hence, I ask you to listen to Megan's version of events and let her know you listened and understood what she feels. Accept that there is her story, your story and the truth. This listening/understanding/accepting and trying to have as many positive interactions as possible replenishes your emotional bank with her. I have tried to set up you and Mom arranging for Megan to see her sister because I believed this would again been seen as a positive gesture by you toward Megan and keep adding to that emotional bank.
--
Beth A. McGuire, Ph.D.
Psychologist PSY 10520
521 W. Citrus Avenue
Redlands, CA 92373-4625
Office 909-793-7064
Cell 909-831-6377
Fax 909-793-9485
______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Mon, Mar 25, 2013 at 9:36 AM
To: Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Beth,
I am gathering up information that you asked for. In the meantime, I hope you realize that Christy's last e-mail was about one thing and one thing only--she wants Megan back at ACE.
Megan has been unhappy with her choice to transfer to Riverside Prep. Megan has been complaining and crying about it. Christy is unable to say no to Megan. Notice how Christy now speaks disapprovingly of and disparages the administration, teachers, and the school in an attempt to justify taking Megan out of Riverside Prep. My guess is that Christy will switch Megan back to ACE with or without my support.
But more importantly, does it sound familiar?
Joe
[Quoted text hidden]
--
Joe and Tammy Barrow
www.EmpowerMeJournals.com
www.April25.org
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Mon, Mar 25, 2013 at 4:13 PM
To: Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Attached are two text message exchanges between me and Megan. My notes are in red. They are examples of how Megan has learned to get what she wants. You’ll see how it doesn’t work with me. The problem is that Christy readily, buys into it when Megan says that she is afraid of me even though these claims have been dismissed by Dr. Amy Miller and Shirley Stutson.
Keep in mind this was just when Megan wanted to hang out with her girlfriends, now Megan is heavily infatuated with boys to a harmful degree. Megan’s symptoms that Christy speaks about in her last e-mail are not due to anything going on with me or missing her sisters --Megan could easily persuade Christy to bring her to visit her sisters at any time-- it has everything to do with the havoc going on in her romantic life. It is a disastrous mess in which Megan will not come out of unscathed.
Joe
On Fri, Mar 22, 2013 at 5:22 PM, Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net> wrote:
2 attachments
Megan acts up with notes for beth.docx
Megan acts up until remembers warts removed for Beth.docx
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
27KJoe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Tue, Apr 2, 2013 at 1:28 AM
To: Beth McGuire <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Beth,
I have been in the process of collecting as much documentation of what we have been going through. It is a monumental task.Our therapist, Carol Teiltebaum agreed that to sending you everything would overwhelm you. Still, I believe it all to be relative as it paints a clear picture of not only my relationship with Megan but what is happening with Christy. Because of time constraints I have decided to send what I have gathered so far.
Here is a link. Again, it is overwhelming. The fact that no one will really ever takes the time to look and examine all the evidence has worked to Christy's advantage and, unfortunately to Megan's detriment.
I also believe that even a brief conversation with our therapist would bring some light into the situation. She is very familiar with what we are dealing with. Her number is 760-xxx-xxxx.
Here is a link to the documentation that you requested. http://picturesforbeth.weebly.com/
It is a work in progress. I will continue to add documentation...[
--
Joe and Tammy Barrow
www.EmpowerMeJournals.com
www.April25.org
_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Beth <bmcgphd@keyway.net>Tue, Apr 2, 2013 at 5:49 AM
To: Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>
I would be happy to talk to Carol. Yes, I believe if you write that you authorize me to talk with Carol and authorize me to write a report for Court, sign it, scan it in, and send it, that works. I would do them separately. Faxed signatures work so I believe scanned ones do as well. Thanks.
Beth
_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Joe - Tammy Barrow <cmyfamly@gmail.com>Tue, Apr 2, 2013 at 9:54 AM
To: Beth <bmcgphd@keyway.net>
Beth,
Here is a consent form to share information between you and Carol TeitelbaumJoe
2 attachmentsconsent forms 001.jpg
1879Kconsent forms 002.jpg
1860K