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Quote from Christy:
"I will take you back to court. I will take you back to court! and I WILL take more time away from you!"
"I will take you back to court. I will take you back to court! and I WILL take more time away from you!"
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MAKING GOOD ON HER THREAT
This took place on February 24 2012. Approximately a month after Christy and I settled on a parenting plan and had it placed in a court order. I was driving the two hours out to pick up our daughter like we do every weekend. This is an audio of Christy along with the text exchange that follows. She is threatening to take time away from me even though It has barely been a little over a month since a brand new court order was set in place. A court order that she begged and pleaded for. The most interesting thing about this audio is not the fact that she threatens to take time away from me; she did that constantly. The thing that I want you to note is why: Christy is threatening to take time away from me if I “talk crap” about her. If I talk crap about her. Because that is a transgression so offensive and so heinous that the consequence should be time taken away from a loving relationship between a father and his daughter. AND... By talk crap she means if I tell anyone that she let April walk to a friend’s house, a mile and a half away, where there was no adult supervision. Not that big of a deal but to Christy it’s so important to look like a good parent. It was a simple parental dispute. The real question and what I hear alienated parents ask often is why? So what did I really do that I deserve to have more time taken away from me? Why is Christy so obsessed with completely destroying my relationship (and damaging our daughter in the process) with our daughter? |
The rest of this recording is also very revealing of what I go though. In it she goes straight to my relationship with Megan. |
TRANSCRIPT OF CONVERSATION BETWEEN CHRISTY and JOE R. BARROW, ON FEBRUARY 24, 2012
LOCATION: In front of Christy's home
CHRISTY: Joe, I am telling you...
JOE: I am going to talk to teachers, I am going to talk to Bitsy, I am going to talk to her parents...
CHRISTY: I don’t really care who you talk to
JOE: fine, okay...
CHRISTY: She lives with me Joe...
JOE: yeah, she lives with both of us.
CHRISTY: And if you sabotage and talk crap about me...
JOE: No, I never do...
CHRISTY: I will take you back to court... (Here we go again...)
JOE: go ahead...
CHRISTY: I WILL take you back to court! (Here we go again...)
JOE: Go ahead.
CHRISTY: and I will take more time away from you! (I have been hearing this for years, but this time I have a court order that says I don't need to give in to craziness or enable her by giving in.)
JOE: Go ahead. Good luck.
CHRISTY: Cause she doesn't even want to come out here. (Megan had already been out to our van and was ecstatic to see us as she always is. See text exchange afterwards)
JOE: Whoa...Why wouldn't she want to come out?
CHRISTY: Look at the way you treat her.
JOE: She was just fine. How do...what are you talking about?
CHRISTY: She didn’t do anything wrong and you’re making her feel like she did something wrong.
JOE: No
CHRISTY: If anything it would probably be my fault. Don’t do that to her.
JOE: Thank you for acknowledging that.
JOE: Nobody is doing anything...
CHRISTY: I allowed her to go to Cynthia’s, Its my choice!
...END OF TRANSCRIPT
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TEXT EXCHANGE on FEBRUARY 24, 2012
From: JOE BARROW <Dad> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:40 PM To: CHRISTY <Mom> I'm here to pick up our daughter..been waiting patiently. Not here to argue or fight with u. ________________________________________ From: JOE BARROW <Dad> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:42 PM To: CHRISTY <Mom> Megan says she wanted to come out and that she doesn't really want to go to award ceremony..I'm confused...u said she didn't want to come out o the car...??? ________________________________________ From: CHRISTY <Mom> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:45 PM To: JOE BARROW <Dad> Please leave her out if this. Do not discuss our issues with her. We need to go to counseling asap. Dont know why u stopped taking her but we clearly have an issue right now. ________ From: CHRISTY <Mom> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:48 PM To: JOE BARROW <Dad> This whole situation was a miscomunication. Megan did nothing wrong. Im done with the insults from you. _________________________________________ From: JOE BARROW <Dad> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:49 PM To: CHRISTY <Mom> Well u said that she. Didn't want to come out to the car... I thought u were taking me back to court... _________ From: JOE BARROW <Dad> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:49 PM To: CHRISTY <Mom> Well u said that she. Didn't want to come out to the car... I thought u were taking me back to court... ________________________________________ From: CHRISTY <MOM> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:49 PM To: JOE BARROW <Dad> Im done ________________________________________ From: JOE BARROW <Dad> Fri, Feb 24, 2012 at 5:51 PM To: CHRISTY <Mom> Insults? please let me know how I insulted u so that I am aware and an apologize. Not my intention...just wanted to pick up megan. And concerned about her being unsupervised. |
