Commissioner Daniels, Shirley Stutson, Susan Bailes, Pietrina Termini: Does this look like I am alienating myself?
Interference with threat of court action
This was also one of my court exhibits supporting how Christy attempts to cut into my visitation time and if I offer any resistance she threatens court action. Again, the judge did not even look at it. CONTENTS:
EXHIBIT 3A Christy (Mom) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 7:42 AM To: Joe (Dad) Hi joe, April had mentioned u were picking her up again howver, April has daily responsibilites here as well as cleaning her room. I would aslo like to spend at least an hour with he before she leaves for the weekend. You can either pick her up at 4 or we can c u at gym. Either way, since she was gone with u yesterday, she needs to fullfill her obligations here today. We also need to agree on an acceptable time that u will have her home on visits. If we can not talk about this in person than i suggest we bring it up in counseling. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 7:51 AM To: Christy (Mom) I am. Picking her up today right after school. She can clean her room on Monday. U need to make sure she cleans her room and does her "obligations" during the week. And yes we will discuss this in therapy. ________________________________________ Christy (Mom) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 7:57 AM To: Joe (Dad) U r being unreasonable about this, we were supposed to get along here however u make it real hard to communicate and come up with plans that are flexable ________________________________________ Christy (Mom) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 7:57 AM To: Joe (Dad) . U specically told me that we would work on being flexable with our times, i had no idea u would retact that. April has daily chores here and we stick to a normal routine. There was no mention in the order that fridays u pick her up. If this is a speacial occasion then i understand, however u have to keep in mind she has responsibiltes here as well. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 8:04 AM To: Christy (Mom) I Don't think I am being unreasonable. Sorry u feel that way. U r right, we need to discuss this with a third party and wor it out. I believe having her do her chores during the week is a good idea, that way I don't have to cut my visit with her short. I'll make a therapy appointmet with shirley ASAP andlet her know u want to come as well. ________________________________________ Christy (Mom) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 8:25 AM To: Joe (Dad) In the meantime, r u going to let her come home for her responsibilties. Or r we strctly going by court order? Just want to know how this is going down. we can continue to work on being flexable ? And we can for the sake of April try to get along and work with eachother. U had her late last night, i would like her to be home for at least an hour before she is gone for the weekend. If u absolutely refuse, then we can revisit this in court. Dont want to go there again but i have to have some leaway here ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 9:19 AM To: Christy (Mom) Ok, I will pick her up after school and bring her to you. And I will pick her up an hour later. No worries. ________________________________________ Christy (Mom) Fri, Mar 2, 2012 at 1:12 PM To: Joe (Dad) K thanks TWO (2) WEEKS LATER: Christy is “requesting” that I also bring April back to her EARLIER than court ordered time. EXHIBIT 3B: From: Joe (dad) Wed, Mar 14, 2012 at 2:37 PM To: Christy (Mom) Fyi: Coming to see April tomorrow. ________________________________________ From: Christy (Mom) Wed, Mar 14, 2012 at 3:18 PM To: Joe (dad) I think its nice that u cone out but if u pick her up after school and keep her, please have her home before 8pm. THIS IS AN ONGOING THING WITH CHRISTY. THE THING IS IF I DON'T COMPLY THERE IS A THREAT OF COURT ACTION...AND MOST OF US KNOW HOW THAT WORKS FOR THE TARGETED PARENT. I AM NOT BEING CYNICAL, THE COURTS ARE NOT WELL-EQUIPPED FOR THE TACTICS OF AN ALIENATING PARENT (Narcissistic Parent) |
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This part is common. When I am spending too much time with April and things are incredible, Christy tends to turn up the interference. This is me trying to take a firm stance. I don't think that I am being un-reasonable. What is odd is when she says things like there being no mention in court order that I pick her up. It plainly says, I pick our daughter up every Thursday and the 1st, 2nd, and 4th Friday of each month Typical Christy: My way or the COURT way. Again, she has done this with the other 2 fathers of her other 2 children. I agree to pick April up from school, bring her home to Christy and then pick her up in an hour. I actually just sit outside their home for an hour. |