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My Facebook Post on July 31 2012
Joe Barrow July 31, 2012
Please I need everyone’s help. We have been living a nightmare for the last 2 years. Some of you are aware of a FRACTION of what we have been going through.
I was so proud of Megan this last week. We had talked to her about the 4 Agreements and it had really sunk in—or so we thought. She left our home with some hand-written notes about the 4 Agreements. We were soooo full of hope! She promised that she would read the book and abide by it in order to bring peace to our lives. We even spoke to Christy when she came to pick her up on Friday. Christy, Tammy, and I agreed that we would help Megan to grow with the help of this little book and our collective guidance. That we would place Megan’s well-being as a priority by starting anew.
Tonight, her mother Christy told me that our 13 year old daughter doesn't want to see me or Tammy anymore. Then she handed the phone over to Megan who repeated the same thing. It broke my heart. But I have been fighting this for the last 2 years. It’s called Parental Alienation (PA).
Yes, I have a court order, but Christy stated that she doesn't care what the court order says, she won't allow me to see Megan until Megan is ready. She stated that Megan is “her” daughter, she is the mother, and simply will not allow it. Christy (along with Kaylee and anyone in her household) has also been ordered to stop the alienating and disparaging remarks which have greatly contributed to the disintegration of Megan and my relationship. A common staple of an alienating parent is that they completely disregard court orders. (Please look up Parental Alienation)
I had never heard of Parental Alienation before 2 years ago, but now that I have lived it and heard the words that any targeted parent fears hearing from their child, “I don’t want to see you ever again”, I will devote as much time as possible to bringing this to light. In the little I have shared, I have been overwhelmed by the number of adults who feel that they were alienated by a spiteful parent.
I feel for my wife. Her relationship with Megan was gone long before tonight. She had always been a threat to Christy especially when Tammy and Megan became close. Tammy has taken it hard. How could she not. I haven’t slept all night and Tammy passed out a few hours ago on the loveseat. I dread the moment she wakes up because I know how heartbroken she is.
I was somewhat relieved, and very proud of her, when she walked out of the therapist’s office 2 weeks ago. I thought good for her, she doesn’t deserve this. Sadly, a part of me wished she would completely give up and just let me deal with it and save her the heartache. What did she ever do but be a great mother and wife.
I plan on being as direct and honest as I feel I need to let others know what happened and provide as much documentation as possible.
An alienating parent usually finds a co-operative therapist, family member, or other community member to add validity and who she can dupe into assisting with the alienating process by providing distorted facts.
Apparently, Christy chose Jeree . Saturday, Christy brought Megan to Jeree’s house. Jeree played a role in this latest episodes and it had dreadful consequences.
Everything that has happened, including recruiting Jeree, is as if Christy was reading from a parenting alienation playbook.
Jeree’s role was a small role but it had devastating consequences.
I intend to abide by my promise to Megan to never give up on her, even though she said go ahead and do whatever you want, but it won’t work, you can’t get me back.
I also promise to be impeccable with my word as I tell anyone who will listen about the ordeal that we have been living through. I have removed any minors who may not be able to grasp what we are going through. Additionally, if anybody feels offended by my exposing the horror that we have been going through, please feel free to unfriend me.
If anyone is familiar with Parental Alienation we would love to hear from you. Please pray for Megan and our family.
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Please I need everyone’s help. We have been living a nightmare for the last 2 years. Some of you are aware of a FRACTION of what we have been going through.
I was so proud of Megan this last week. We had talked to her about the 4 Agreements and it had really sunk in—or so we thought. She left our home with some hand-written notes about the 4 Agreements. We were soooo full of hope! She promised that she would read the book and abide by it in order to bring peace to our lives. We even spoke to Christy when she came to pick her up on Friday. Christy, Tammy, and I agreed that we would help Megan to grow with the help of this little book and our collective guidance. That we would place Megan’s well-being as a priority by starting anew.
Tonight, her mother Christy told me that our 13 year old daughter doesn't want to see me or Tammy anymore. Then she handed the phone over to Megan who repeated the same thing. It broke my heart. But I have been fighting this for the last 2 years. It’s called Parental Alienation (PA).
Yes, I have a court order, but Christy stated that she doesn't care what the court order says, she won't allow me to see Megan until Megan is ready. She stated that Megan is “her” daughter, she is the mother, and simply will not allow it. Christy (along with Kaylee and anyone in her household) has also been ordered to stop the alienating and disparaging remarks which have greatly contributed to the disintegration of Megan and my relationship. A common staple of an alienating parent is that they completely disregard court orders. (Please look up Parental Alienation)
I had never heard of Parental Alienation before 2 years ago, but now that I have lived it and heard the words that any targeted parent fears hearing from their child, “I don’t want to see you ever again”, I will devote as much time as possible to bringing this to light. In the little I have shared, I have been overwhelmed by the number of adults who feel that they were alienated by a spiteful parent.
I feel for my wife. Her relationship with Megan was gone long before tonight. She had always been a threat to Christy especially when Tammy and Megan became close. Tammy has taken it hard. How could she not. I haven’t slept all night and Tammy passed out a few hours ago on the loveseat. I dread the moment she wakes up because I know how heartbroken she is.
I was somewhat relieved, and very proud of her, when she walked out of the therapist’s office 2 weeks ago. I thought good for her, she doesn’t deserve this. Sadly, a part of me wished she would completely give up and just let me deal with it and save her the heartache. What did she ever do but be a great mother and wife.
I plan on being as direct and honest as I feel I need to let others know what happened and provide as much documentation as possible.
An alienating parent usually finds a co-operative therapist, family member, or other community member to add validity and who she can dupe into assisting with the alienating process by providing distorted facts.
Apparently, Christy chose Jeree . Saturday, Christy brought Megan to Jeree’s house. Jeree played a role in this latest episodes and it had dreadful consequences.
Everything that has happened, including recruiting Jeree, is as if Christy was reading from a parenting alienation playbook.
Jeree’s role was a small role but it had devastating consequences.
I intend to abide by my promise to Megan to never give up on her, even though she said go ahead and do whatever you want, but it won’t work, you can’t get me back.
I also promise to be impeccable with my word as I tell anyone who will listen about the ordeal that we have been living through. I have removed any minors who may not be able to grasp what we are going through. Additionally, if anybody feels offended by my exposing the horror that we have been going through, please feel free to unfriend me.
If anyone is familiar with Parental Alienation we would love to hear from you. Please pray for Megan and our family.
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