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Our therapist's notes to Dr. McGuire
From: Carol T <[email protected]>Wed, Apr 24, 2013 at 2:05 PM
To: Joe Tammy Barrow <[email protected]>
Tried many times to call her she called back and said she would call me at night and never did then she did not return my message this was sent to her on April 14th. Carol
-----Forwarded Message-----
>From: [email protected]
>Sent: Apr 14, 2013 8:59 AM
>To: [email protected]
>Subject: Joe Barrow
>
>Hi Beth: You never called me back the night we shared voice mails
>Here is my summary.
>
>Let me know if there is anything else you need.
>
>
>Carol Teitelbaum,MFT
Summary of treatment of Joe Barrow.doc 29K (Document that was attached is below)
To: Joe Tammy Barrow <[email protected]>
Tried many times to call her she called back and said she would call me at night and never did then she did not return my message this was sent to her on April 14th. Carol
-----Forwarded Message-----
>From: [email protected]
>Sent: Apr 14, 2013 8:59 AM
>To: [email protected]
>Subject: Joe Barrow
>
>Hi Beth: You never called me back the night we shared voice mails
>Here is my summary.
>
>Let me know if there is anything else you need.
>
>
>Carol Teitelbaum,MFT
Summary of treatment of Joe Barrow.doc 29K (Document that was attached is below)
Summary of treatment of Joe Barrow
April 13, 2013
First Session: 9/5/12
Client came in with spouse
Initial assessment
Client, Joe, stated was feeling sad, fearful, and exhausted
Was well- groomed, good eye contact, thought content was within normal range, thought process was within normal range, Perception was within normal range, Mood Sad,
Affect full, behavior cooperative
Shared at issue ex-wife keeping daughter form him.
Dates of service –
9/24, 10/3, 10/11, 10/23, 11/12, 12/4, 12/12, 12/21, 1/4/13,
1/16, 3/2.
Client is well educated, verbal, concerned, cooperative, determined. Appears to have a very stable relationship with his spouse. They communicate well and cooperate with one another. There appears to be great respect for each other.
Issues covered in sessions: Megan being allowed by mother to have a boyfriend.
Sharing frustrations of driving all the way to see her and then being denied his visit.
Meghan texting or calling and being nice and then hearing from his ex that she didn’t want to come. Client shared times Meghan was cold in the beginning of a visit and after a while of being with his family she warmed up and acted “normal” again and had fun.
Client shared experiences of mediation. He has documented by notes, saved texts and videos many of the incidents he is complaining about but it seems no one wants to see them. This is frustrating for him.
He was accused of busting into the bathroom while Meghan was in the shower or while she was undressing but CPS found that was an unfounded claim.
Client felt if it was of upmost importance his ex wife would have brought that up first at mediation but he reported,
was brought us as an afterthought at the end of mediation.
Client feels so helpless not knowing how his daughter is really doing, if she is being taught proper boundaries. From what he is experiencing he does not believe so. He worries about his daughter and feels that his wife is employing the tactics of parental alienation.
Client was ordered by Judge not to have contact with Meghan for a time that was very hard on him and his minor children who miss their sister.
Client reported he began therapy in the hopes that Megan will join him with Beth McGuire.
Client reported his daughter text him saying she missed her sister.
Client reported that at the last court date was told Meghan could see him if she wanted to and told ex needed to go to therapy.
Client and his spouse appear to have good parenting skills they have read many books and are open to learning. At their home they do set boundaries and limits and appear to have a good understanding of parenting. Everything is good between Joe and Tammy and their other children. The only ongoing issue they have is not being able to include Meghan in their lives.
Submitted by Carol Teitelbaum, MFT
41-750 Rancho Las Palmas D-2
Rancho Mirage, Calif. 92270
760-346-4606
April 13, 2013
First Session: 9/5/12
Client came in with spouse
Initial assessment
Client, Joe, stated was feeling sad, fearful, and exhausted
Was well- groomed, good eye contact, thought content was within normal range, thought process was within normal range, Perception was within normal range, Mood Sad,
Affect full, behavior cooperative
Shared at issue ex-wife keeping daughter form him.
Dates of service –
9/24, 10/3, 10/11, 10/23, 11/12, 12/4, 12/12, 12/21, 1/4/13,
1/16, 3/2.
Client is well educated, verbal, concerned, cooperative, determined. Appears to have a very stable relationship with his spouse. They communicate well and cooperate with one another. There appears to be great respect for each other.
Issues covered in sessions: Megan being allowed by mother to have a boyfriend.
Sharing frustrations of driving all the way to see her and then being denied his visit.
Meghan texting or calling and being nice and then hearing from his ex that she didn’t want to come. Client shared times Meghan was cold in the beginning of a visit and after a while of being with his family she warmed up and acted “normal” again and had fun.
Client shared experiences of mediation. He has documented by notes, saved texts and videos many of the incidents he is complaining about but it seems no one wants to see them. This is frustrating for him.
He was accused of busting into the bathroom while Meghan was in the shower or while she was undressing but CPS found that was an unfounded claim.
Client felt if it was of upmost importance his ex wife would have brought that up first at mediation but he reported,
was brought us as an afterthought at the end of mediation.
Client feels so helpless not knowing how his daughter is really doing, if she is being taught proper boundaries. From what he is experiencing he does not believe so. He worries about his daughter and feels that his wife is employing the tactics of parental alienation.
Client was ordered by Judge not to have contact with Meghan for a time that was very hard on him and his minor children who miss their sister.
Client reported he began therapy in the hopes that Megan will join him with Beth McGuire.
Client reported his daughter text him saying she missed her sister.
Client reported that at the last court date was told Meghan could see him if she wanted to and told ex needed to go to therapy.
Client and his spouse appear to have good parenting skills they have read many books and are open to learning. At their home they do set boundaries and limits and appear to have a good understanding of parenting. Everything is good between Joe and Tammy and their other children. The only ongoing issue they have is not being able to include Meghan in their lives.
Submitted by Carol Teitelbaum, MFT
41-750 Rancho Las Palmas D-2
Rancho Mirage, Calif. 92270
760-346-4606