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Sophie's Birthday at Chuck E Cheese (May 4-5, 2013)What happens to Megan when she reaches out and breaks the house rule: No reaching out to dad
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On May 4, 2013, in the afternoon, Megan reached out and asked to see me and Sophie. By the time Christy got my message it was the next morning. After complaining about how this was inconveniencing her, Christy stated that Megan was still asleep and she would wake Megan up and talk about it.
This is what Megan Tweeted a few minutes after her mother said she was going to "wake her up and ask her about this" (NOTE THE TIME OF MEGAN'S TWEETS)
This is what Megan Tweeted a few minutes after her mother said she was going to "wake her up and ask her about this" (NOTE THE TIME OF MEGAN'S TWEETS)
Megan tweets about everything that goes on in her life...this morning she tweets about how her morning has started off so bad that she is pissed to the point of wanting to cry. She claims everyone around her is giving her ish (shit) for SOMETHING she did wrong. Not only that but she is sick of people always making her feel that way.
I know she is.
What an alienated child does in "going along" is a common defense reaction. Her tortured soul can't handle having to hate someone that she has always loved and is naturally born to love.
Christy AND her older daughter, Kaylee, drove Megan down to Chuck E Cheese in Palm Desert. Close your eyes and imagine what that two hour drive down to see us would have been like if Megan would have insisted that she was happy to come see our family vs what the drive would be like if the entire time she claimed that asking to see us was a mistake and that she didn't want to stay visiting me and her family long.
Which would you choose?
Megan stayed for a little over an hour.
Below are the text exchanges that took place the evening before.
I know she is.
What an alienated child does in "going along" is a common defense reaction. Her tortured soul can't handle having to hate someone that she has always loved and is naturally born to love.
Christy AND her older daughter, Kaylee, drove Megan down to Chuck E Cheese in Palm Desert. Close your eyes and imagine what that two hour drive down to see us would have been like if Megan would have insisted that she was happy to come see our family vs what the drive would be like if the entire time she claimed that asking to see us was a mistake and that she didn't want to stay visiting me and her family long.
Which would you choose?
Megan stayed for a little over an hour.
Below are the text exchanges that took place the evening before.
Text with Megan
Megan< > Sat, May 4, 2013 at 2:14 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
Please can you bring Sophie down so I can see her. Please dad it's been half a year
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sat, May 4, 2013 at 4:13 PM
To: Megan< >
I know beautiful. We all love you and miss you...you know you are welcome here anytime. You know that. We are at the beach today with jackie but wil be home late tonight and all day tomorrow....i have driven down there way oo many tmes and not been able to see you, so anytime that your mom wants to bring you would be great! Love you and miss you! Anytime. Sophie talks about you all the time and misses you too...so does malia, jaida and mom.
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Megan< > Sat, May 4, 2013 at 4:17 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
Dad, you claim that my mother is stopping me from seeing you. This is the third time I asked to see you and Sophie and you said no.. And that my mom woul
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Megan< > Sat, May 4, 2013 at 4:17 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
d have to drive me all the way over there
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sat, May 4, 2013 at 7:14 PM
To: Megan< >
Hi beautiful...sorry that is not how i remember it, but I am glad that you want to see us woohoooo!!!....we have missed you. Have yur mom text me that she is okay with it and we can make arrangements.
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Megan< > Sat, May 4, 2013 at 7:28 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
Will you at least mean half way with her
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sat, May 4, 2013 at 8:15 PM
To: Megan< >
Waiting to hear from your mom....love you...what have you been doing?
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Megan< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:20 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
Thank you for letting me come I enjoyed seeing the girls.
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:21 PM
To: Megan< >
Hey where did you go?
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April< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:22 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
I left
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:23 PM
To: Megan< >
How did you leave? Was yur mom waiting outside the whole time?
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Megan< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:24 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
I called her
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Megan< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:25 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
She was at the store next to chuck e cheese
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:27 PM
To: Megan< >
Okay...good seeing you....You made Sophies day...she is happy!!!!
To: Joe (Dad)
Please can you bring Sophie down so I can see her. Please dad it's been half a year
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sat, May 4, 2013 at 4:13 PM
To: Megan< >
I know beautiful. We all love you and miss you...you know you are welcome here anytime. You know that. We are at the beach today with jackie but wil be home late tonight and all day tomorrow....i have driven down there way oo many tmes and not been able to see you, so anytime that your mom wants to bring you would be great! Love you and miss you! Anytime. Sophie talks about you all the time and misses you too...so does malia, jaida and mom.
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Megan< > Sat, May 4, 2013 at 4:17 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
Dad, you claim that my mother is stopping me from seeing you. This is the third time I asked to see you and Sophie and you said no.. And that my mom woul
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Megan< > Sat, May 4, 2013 at 4:17 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
d have to drive me all the way over there
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sat, May 4, 2013 at 7:14 PM
To: Megan< >
Hi beautiful...sorry that is not how i remember it, but I am glad that you want to see us woohoooo!!!....we have missed you. Have yur mom text me that she is okay with it and we can make arrangements.
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Megan< > Sat, May 4, 2013 at 7:28 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
Will you at least mean half way with her
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sat, May 4, 2013 at 8:15 PM
To: Megan< >
Waiting to hear from your mom....love you...what have you been doing?
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Megan< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:20 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
Thank you for letting me come I enjoyed seeing the girls.
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:21 PM
To: Megan< >
Hey where did you go?
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April< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:22 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
I left
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:23 PM
To: Megan< >
How did you leave? Was yur mom waiting outside the whole time?
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Megan< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:24 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
I called her
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Megan< > Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:25 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
She was at the store next to chuck e cheese
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Joe (Dad)< Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:27 PM
To: Megan< >
Okay...good seeing you....You made Sophies day...she is happy!!!!
Text exchange with Christy
Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sat, May 4, 2013 at 8:14 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Megan is saying that she wants to see me and Sophie. Tomorrow we are celebrating Sophies birthday at Chuck e Heese at 12 and then my house for cake and ice cream at 4.... It would be nice if allowed her to celebrate her sisters 5th birthday and bring Megan...she is saying she misses us.
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM <<<----- NOTE THE TIME
To: Joe (Dad)
I just read this message. Slept in today cuz we had a very long day yesterday. Megan is still sleeping. I will wake her up and ask her about this. I real
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
ly wish you would have arranged this at least a couple days in advance. It makes it real hard for me to facilitate a visit with her sister when you sugge
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
st things like this last minute. This would have been a great chance for the girls to see each other! Me having to drive all the way to Indio for the sak
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
e of the kids is what I would do but it would have been good to have the opportunity to actually make that happen. With that, I will see what is going on
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
with Megan and hope to see you later today. Please text me the address where the party is and the times you will be there. Thank you
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 10:31 AM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
First of all let me correct you...it is a visit with her family. Rather than complain about how this is inconvenient for you. Why dont we focus on how we can make this happen for the sake of our children who have had their lives disrupted. Megan loves me and her family. As far as your complaint that this is not enough notice for you, you haven't been allowing Megan participate in any birthdays or holidays of any kind with my family, we thought this would be no different additionally, it was Megan who requested a visit with me and Sophie last night. Once again, i am sorry tha you seem to have a problem with it. It would be nice if you place your issues aside for one day. Its getting close to a year since she spent time with her sisters. Again, this is Megan asking to see me... Chuck e cheese in Palm desert at 12...and then my house at 4 pm for cake and gifts.
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 10:44 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
Thank you for inviting us, please text me the address/ location where the party is. We will be late but were leaving in 15 minutes.
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 11:07 AM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
72513 california Hwy 111, palm desert, CA 92260 and then at our home. At 4-6....
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:33 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Thank you for bringing Megan...party will be over at 6...you can pick her up frm my house.
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:34 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
She is enjoying time with her sisters.
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:35 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
I sorry we can't stay that long so when you are finished there I will get her. I am glad she is visiting her sister. Please text me before you leave chuc
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:35 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
k e cheese.
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:50 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Well we are leaving as soon as kids are done with their prizes...Christy, remember,you are not hurting me, but you are hurting megan. She is having fun. She cried when she saw us. I am sure she would enjoy opening gifts and having cake with our family if you allow her to. Think about it. Thanks.
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:22 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Wow...did you guys plan that? Megan didnt say good bye...she just tok off after 1 hr?
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:29 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Thank you for bringing her for an hour so she could see her sisters. Drive safe.
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Megan is saying that she wants to see me and Sophie. Tomorrow we are celebrating Sophies birthday at Chuck e Heese at 12 and then my house for cake and ice cream at 4.... It would be nice if allowed her to celebrate her sisters 5th birthday and bring Megan...she is saying she misses us.
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM <<<----- NOTE THE TIME
To: Joe (Dad)
I just read this message. Slept in today cuz we had a very long day yesterday. Megan is still sleeping. I will wake her up and ask her about this. I real
________________________________________
Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
ly wish you would have arranged this at least a couple days in advance. It makes it real hard for me to facilitate a visit with her sister when you sugge
________________________________________
Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
st things like this last minute. This would have been a great chance for the girls to see each other! Me having to drive all the way to Indio for the sak
________________________________________
Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
e of the kids is what I would do but it would have been good to have the opportunity to actually make that happen. With that, I will see what is going on
________________________________________
Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 9:57 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
with Megan and hope to see you later today. Please text me the address where the party is and the times you will be there. Thank you
________________________________________
Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 10:31 AM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
First of all let me correct you...it is a visit with her family. Rather than complain about how this is inconvenient for you. Why dont we focus on how we can make this happen for the sake of our children who have had their lives disrupted. Megan loves me and her family. As far as your complaint that this is not enough notice for you, you haven't been allowing Megan participate in any birthdays or holidays of any kind with my family, we thought this would be no different additionally, it was Megan who requested a visit with me and Sophie last night. Once again, i am sorry tha you seem to have a problem with it. It would be nice if you place your issues aside for one day. Its getting close to a year since she spent time with her sisters. Again, this is Megan asking to see me... Chuck e cheese in Palm desert at 12...and then my house at 4 pm for cake and gifts.
________________________________________
Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 10:44 AM
To: Joe (Dad)
Thank you for inviting us, please text me the address/ location where the party is. We will be late but were leaving in 15 minutes.
________________________________________
Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 11:07 AM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
72513 california Hwy 111, palm desert, CA 92260 and then at our home. At 4-6....
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:33 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Thank you for bringing Megan...party will be over at 6...you can pick her up frm my house.
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:34 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
She is enjoying time with her sisters.
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:35 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
I sorry we can't stay that long so when you are finished there I will get her. I am glad she is visiting her sister. Please text me before you leave chuc
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Christy Garrison <Christy> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:35 PM
To: Joe (Dad)
k e cheese.
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 2:50 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Well we are leaving as soon as kids are done with their prizes...Christy, remember,you are not hurting me, but you are hurting megan. She is having fun. She cried when she saw us. I am sure she would enjoy opening gifts and having cake with our family if you allow her to. Think about it. Thanks.
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:22 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Wow...did you guys plan that? Megan didnt say good bye...she just tok off after 1 hr?
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Joe (Dad) <Joe (Dad)> Sun, May 5, 2013 at 3:29 PM
To: Christy Garrison <Christy>
Thank you for bringing her for an hour so she could see her sisters. Drive safe.