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This is a compilation of stories of parental alienation found throughout the internet from around the globe. The are heartbreaking but share an eerie similarity in some of the behaviors of the alienating parent, the alienated child, and unfortunately, of the mental health field, and the broken family court systems. Some have more in similarities than others. But the one thing that they all have in common are that they are frustrating, heart-wrenching, and that all the children caught in the middle are suffering.
Hi am currently fast becoming a victim of parental alienation.
First of all I will say this, I am extremely dissapointed that this sort of behaviour is not condemned in the courts.
I know it's hard to prove but providing you as a male or female methodically take notes in diaries, keep text msgs, emails etc and all relevant evidence pertaining to this sort of behaviour I have read court cases won on it.
The second thing you need to know is that it will cost A LOT of money to try and fight this sort of thing in court. Upwards of $50,000.
Here's a little bit of my story so far.
The ex is saying things such as:
Your son doesn't want to see you anymore
He wants to tell you he doesn't love you anymore
He wants to tell you he doesn't want to see you anymore.
And beleive it or not my son is even saying it nearly word for word on the phone to me
Is this something a 6 year old child would really say you ask??
He refuses to talk to me on the phone at all now.
The ex. whispers demands into my daughters ear when she's talking to me on the phone. Fortunately my daughter hasn't quite been turned against me yet but she does say things which are obviously directives coming from the mother.
What the Alienator also does is constantly talk badly about the other parent, constantly belittling them and making out they are a bad person.
My experience is my children are saying: "Mummy said you will go to jail if you break the law"
Mind you I've never had anything to do with police, courts or jail in the past.
I have ALWAYS ensured both my children talk to their mother on the phone and I have NEVER spoken a bad word about their mother to the children when they are in my company
My son is also saying things to me such as,
"I don't have to talk to you if I don't want to"
This behaviour is insidious, mind numbing and and it's purest form, child abuse.
How can one turn their child against the other parent for no reason?
Now that I am a victim of this behaviour, I now know it is as REAL as the air we breath.
Anyone got any stories to tell on Parental Alienation?
Anyone got any tips on how to deal with this?
First of all I will say this, I am extremely dissapointed that this sort of behaviour is not condemned in the courts.
I know it's hard to prove but providing you as a male or female methodically take notes in diaries, keep text msgs, emails etc and all relevant evidence pertaining to this sort of behaviour I have read court cases won on it.
The second thing you need to know is that it will cost A LOT of money to try and fight this sort of thing in court. Upwards of $50,000.
Here's a little bit of my story so far.
The ex is saying things such as:
Your son doesn't want to see you anymore
He wants to tell you he doesn't love you anymore
He wants to tell you he doesn't want to see you anymore.
And beleive it or not my son is even saying it nearly word for word on the phone to me
Is this something a 6 year old child would really say you ask??
He refuses to talk to me on the phone at all now.
The ex. whispers demands into my daughters ear when she's talking to me on the phone. Fortunately my daughter hasn't quite been turned against me yet but she does say things which are obviously directives coming from the mother.
What the Alienator also does is constantly talk badly about the other parent, constantly belittling them and making out they are a bad person.
My experience is my children are saying: "Mummy said you will go to jail if you break the law"
Mind you I've never had anything to do with police, courts or jail in the past.
I have ALWAYS ensured both my children talk to their mother on the phone and I have NEVER spoken a bad word about their mother to the children when they are in my company
My son is also saying things to me such as,
"I don't have to talk to you if I don't want to"
This behaviour is insidious, mind numbing and and it's purest form, child abuse.
How can one turn their child against the other parent for no reason?
Now that I am a victim of this behaviour, I now know it is as REAL as the air we breath.
Anyone got any stories to tell on Parental Alienation?
Anyone got any tips on how to deal with this?