April acts up...This is how April acts up...it wouldn't be a problem as far as I am concerned. I am an effective parent and would never give in to such drama or immaturity. I stay my ground and explain why this tactic will never work with me. The problem is when her mother supports this and comes to her rescue. Christy, rather than being a parent, decides she wants to be a best friend.
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This is one of the most dumbfounding things that I fail to see how a mediator, therapist, or judge could miss this, when without exception, everyone who reads this can see what is going on.
If you get it could you please call or write Shirley Stutson, Commissioner Debra Daniels, Petrina Termini, Susan Bailes and explain to them that I was just being an effective parent. In the following text message exchange, April acts up when she isn’t getting her way. She claims she doesn’t want to visit ever and that I always force her. She wants to stay with her friends and do her school project. (Dad, sorry I can't make my sister's party but I have to do my homework. How often do we hear that?) It is her little sister’s birthday party. At the end of exchange her tone changes, claiming that she wants to come and that she misses us. Why the sudden change from I never want to see you to I miss you and want to visit? Because she remembers she is to get her warts removed. April has had a hard time with her warts and the removal is important to her. ACTUAL TEXT EXCHANGE: Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 11:51 AM To: April I have to pick up jaida..a nd get sophie ready..text me wit what's going on..and who is in ur group, what the project is.. ________________________________________ April Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 12:11 PM To: Joe (Dad) Cynthia, Ana , && Priscilla && i have papers for it ill show you when i can its hard to explain (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ April Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 12:51 PM To: Joe (Dad) [Quoted text hidden] ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 12:53 PM To: April How long is the project going to take u...and so u want to miss your sisters birthday party? ________________________________________ April Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 12:55 PM To: Joe (Dad) No of corse i dont want to miss it but at this point i kinda have too.. && i have to ketch up with the rest if my class thats why were doing it this weekend (" **Sn00k@&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 12:59 PM To: April April, next time I call and kaylee or ur mom says to hang up I want to sow u something, let the know that we are having a conversation. Call me back when u r able please. At this point I had a 24 minute conversation with April, explaining how to better handle this situation and to please not allow Kaylee to interfere with our communications. April was adamant about not coming and made excuses for Kaylee burping in the phone and making her get off the phone. April kept insisting that she had work to do while Kaylee continued to be a distraction. Afterwards, I re-iterated that she didn't have a choice, said goodbye and hung up. ________________________________________ April Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:30 PM To: Joe (Dad) Yuhr telling me im being disrespectful whn yuhr the one tht hung up on meh?? Dad im doing the right thing im doing what I Have to do and thats get my project done you always force me into going to yuhr house always and i never want to go ever so just let me do wht i want to do for once please i really h ave to do the project i thought you would be mature about it and say sure ok April if thats what you have to do then ok sure im dissapointed but sure but no you had to make it the biggest deal in the world like always i cant go to yuhr house today or this weekend im sorry k no need to argue bye (" ** ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:33 PM To: April I idnt hang up on u..I said good bye. End of conversation. I already informed ur mom that I am picking u up. ________________________________________ April Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:34 PM To: Joe (Dad) Ya by texting her? shes asleepp real matture dad im not going with yuh this weekend always this is how it goes you always force me but i do not want to go let me do what i want to do for once!1 (" **Sn00k@&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:34 PM To: April It would help if u or kaylee apologized for burping in my ear. That was kinda rude. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:35 PM To: April You said some mean things April...I just think u need to think about it. We will talk later. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:37 PM To: April I love u and don't deserve to be hung up on, burbed at or said mean things... ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:37 PM To: April Love u...see u tonite. ________________________________________ April Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:38 PM To: Joe (Dad) She walked by and burbed she said sorry and you hung up on me (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 1:41 PM To: April April, I want u to realize that saying hurtful things or being drama will never get u your way. Saying you r sorry and realizing ur mistakes is a step in right direction. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 10:35 PM To: April April. I am picking u up tomorrow morning. Love u good night. ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Sat, Mar 26, 2011 at 9:54 AM To: April Good morning mamas...r u getting ready for gym... ________________________________________ April Sat, Mar 26, 2011 at 9:55 AM To: Joe (Dad) Yea && i apoligize for being drama Honestly.. Yuhr picking me up today ? Because my mom said that either grama or Jackie was taking me tomorrow so i can work on the project && still go to the party (" **Sn00k@&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ April Sat, Mar 26, 2011 at 10:03 AM To: Joe (Dad) Ill go with yuh guys today i wnna go with yuh guys i miss yuh i just wnted to nw whts going on? (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Sat, Mar 26, 2011 at 10:05 AM To: April Call me we will talk about it ok? Work something out ________________________________________ Joe (Dad) Sat, Mar 26, 2011 at 10:07 AM To: April U want to go come with jackie tomorrow? ________________________________________ April Sat, Mar 26, 2011 at 10:23 AM To: Joe (Dad) Dad??? (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") ________________________________________ April Sat, Mar 26, 2011 at 10:24 AM To: Joe (Dad) Well i was thinking when was i susppost to get my wart removed? today or tomorrow? (" **Sn00ki&&D33nA**") |
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