A Case For Parental Alienation:
A documented account of how it occurs. From the disturbed alienator to how our court system misses it even in the face of an insurmountable amount of evidence.
There is close to 3 years of actual text messages, e-mails, voice-mails, audio and video recordings showing the alienation process and more. A few of my colleagues and I have found it useful and a great resource in exploring how the entire alienation process works from the alienator to the family law system. The similarities in all the stories are eerie and yet very revealing of where the faults are in our system. Parental Alienation is a form of child abuse. It is insidious and hideous in nature.
I will attempt to add documentation every 2-3 days. When I do, I will post on Facebook, twitter, or email subscribers. Eventually, all the titles will be hyper-linked and link you to documentation of event.
There is close to 3 years of actual text messages, e-mails, voice-mails, audio and video recordings showing the alienation process and more. A few of my colleagues and I have found it useful and a great resource in exploring how the entire alienation process works from the alienator to the family law system. The similarities in all the stories are eerie and yet very revealing of where the faults are in our system. Parental Alienation is a form of child abuse. It is insidious and hideous in nature.
I will attempt to add documentation every 2-3 days. When I do, I will post on Facebook, twitter, or email subscribers. Eventually, all the titles will be hyper-linked and link you to documentation of event.
Cast of Characters
(Go to Main Alienators Page)
April/Megan (Our Alienated Daughter)
Shirley Stutson, MFT
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Pietrina Termini, MFT (Mediator 2011)Mediator during our first bout with Christy keeping Megan away from us. We saw her for about 15-20 minutes and determined that this was not a case of parental alienation, but that I am alienating myself. Was also duped by Christy.
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Susan Bailes, MFT (Mediator 2012)This mediator got it! She was on task, asking the right questions of Christy and had Christy all twisted and not knowing what to say or how to answer the questions. Yet when she we got the mediator's report it was as if she reported on a different case.
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Dr. Amy Miller (Court Ordered Psychologist)Supplied a more accurate report to the court. However, at first Dr. Miller was on her way to missing the alienation (Christy is that manipulative) but my wife wrote her an email and I brought some documentation showing some disturbing behavior which turned things around. Interesting what happens when someone looks at the documentation.
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Dr. Beth A. McGuire (Court picked Psychologist)Wrote a deeply flawed report to the court. But I was able to get a trial regardless. Stay tuned...theres more
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The Duped Ones
Willing and Wounded OnesThese people have an agenda. They are hurting or have been hurt by a spouse, parent or have some unresolved childhood issues. They are either friends or family with the alienator and will supportive of the alienating parent regardless of the weakness, or complete lack of, evidence that the targeted parent is to blame. They are the walking wounded who have their own unresolved issue that they are not dealing with.
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Misguided OnesThose who inadvertently help facilitate or move the alienation forward. They do more harm than good but have the best of intentions. They believe that the targeted parent is behaving in a way that is detrimental to the child. The alienator and the program child can be very convincing. That is one of the reasons an alienator will insist that the judge, mediators, and mental health experts hear it directly from the programmed child.
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NEW: WARNING! Disturbing content: How far will an alienator go?See Video
NEW: Commissioner Debra Daniels drops the ball Go to Story
NEW: Mom's constant contact when we vacation together Go to Texts
NEW: How the Alienator plays the "Victim Card" Go to video/Audio
NEW: Step-dad Blatant Interference October 25, 2012. Go to video.
NEW: This is what happened the very next week. November, 1, 2012 Go to Videos
NEW: The 1/2 a Ring Game. You will have to see it to believe it. Click Here.
NEW: Using April as A Pawn Click Here
NEW: The Telling Text Exchange Click Here
NEW: Commissioner Debra Daniels drops the ball Go to Story
NEW: Mom's constant contact when we vacation together Go to Texts
NEW: How the Alienator plays the "Victim Card" Go to video/Audio
NEW: Step-dad Blatant Interference October 25, 2012. Go to video.
NEW: This is what happened the very next week. November, 1, 2012 Go to Videos
NEW: The 1/2 a Ring Game. You will have to see it to believe it. Click Here.
NEW: Using April as A Pawn Click Here
NEW: The Telling Text Exchange Click Here
My Story: A Documented Case of Alienation
My goal is to have this website be more about documenting the actual behaviors of not only the disturbed parent but also of those who either knowingly, naively, or simply by being incompetent in their profession assist with the alienating process. I stand by my claim that, although possible, it would be extremely difficult for a parent to completely alienate their child from the other parent without the help of other friends or family members, mental health field workers, and of course our broken family law system. Our horrific family law system.
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