FORMAL COMPLAINT AGAINST COMMISSIONER DANIEL
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Commissioner Deborah Daniel Drops the Ball
Imagine if Commissioner Daniel would have said this instead: 
"In the meantime, I expect both parents to facilitate and encourage that your daughter spend time with the other parent as agreed upon in the court order earlier this year. It would be in the best interest of all parties involved."
But she didn't. Not even close. 
Now read the words that she did say which drove everything into a nose dive starting 3 days later. 

READ WHAT HAPPENS IN COURT:

Just another day in Court

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Poor F**king Billy and the Clearing Of The Courtroom
~ Trial Day 1: Are you kidding me?!
~ The Burden Of Proof on the respondent. 
~ Quit reading after 5 pages?...the maximum  
~ UnDue process and the presumption of guilt. 

Commissioner Deborah Daniel
Superior Court of California, County of San Bernardino

How Commissioner Deborah Daniel dropped the ball and changed the course of our lives for the worse.
by Joe R Barrow

I have always maintained that complete Parental Alienation cannot be fully carried out without the help of the mental health field and the family law court system and for that reason it is a blemish on both. One disturbed and misguided parent can rarely accomplish this on his/her own. 

The following is just another frustrating example of how it is done. 

On August 7, 2012, with a few poorly chosen words Commissioner Daniel set into motion what would be the beginning of the end of my relationship with April and that was after Commissioner Daniel actually made an appropriate ruling. She ruled that this wasn't a case that required an emergency hearing, and she was actually right. 

But then, in uttering some thoughtless, unnecessary words, she had carelessly placed our 13 year old child back in the middle of a conflict that I had successfully fought to get her out of through a long arduous custody battle. Our daughter had just been yanked out from the middle of this horrendous conflict. 
With the help of a psychologist that backed my assertions that our daughter should not be placed in the rich role of decision maker, (and her concerns over pending trial date) Christy reluctantly agreed to a fair and detailed parenting plan that I had come up with. Finally, our ordeal was over. 
So we thought.

 “1. Defining and then respecting the differences in the role of biological parents' as decision makers vs. inappropriate decision making calls by a 12 year old child (April).” 
                                                                            Excerpt from Dr. Amy Miller Psychologist report

A month after we had an agreed upon court-order in place, Christy was at it again Threatening to take more time away from me 'if I talk crap about" her. (Go to Recording)
In the recording, Christy is heard threatening to take more time away from me, you can also hear how I am not very concerned about it. We had a month old court order. What judge is going to change a custody order a merely a month later and solely because Christy is upset that I may reveal to others that she is allowing April to walk home from school alone and remain unsupervised. Judges, after all,  are smarter than that. Right?
Right?
So I dismissed her threats and, like in 80 percent of the time, Christy gets over her episode, and on our next meeting acts like nothing ever happened. Which is unsettling when you think about it, but I am always more than fine not having to deal with one of her “episode.” 
There were, of course a few more minor episodes of Christy threatening to take time away from me for one reason or another. But nothing major of consequence. 

 Until an Ex Parte Hearing on August 7, 2012 
In San Bernardino County Court House S11  
 Christy and I stood in front of Commissioner Deborah Daniel as she read Christy’s Ex Parte (Emergency Hearing) to have all my parental rights removed. (See Ex Parte) 
Immediately, Commissioner Daniel ruled accordingly: There was no reason to change custody and definitely no cause for an emergency hearing to do so. After she ruled I made the apparent mistake of verbally agreeing with the ruling. Commissioner Daniel shot me down immediately for agreeing with her finding. 
My wife who had accompanied me, sat directly behind me. We had promised each other we would celebrate if I did a good job in presenting my case. I didn’t even need to do that. The judge had made the right call. There was no reason for an Ex Parte, but I was still amazed by Commissioner Daniel’s animosity towards me, but, I dismissed it. 
After all, our family will remain intact. We get to pick up April like it says in our court order.
Christy had even wrote in her declaration that she was aware that she needed to accept what was in the court order. “I understand that I need to abide by our court order.” (See Christy’s Ex Parte Declaration)
With that in mind, I let out a premature sigh of relief. 

Commissioner Deborah Daniel, however, was not done.
For some inexplicable reason, she decided to add the words that changed everything. (Later, Christy, Mike, and even April would utter the same words almost verbatim on several occasions.)
Commissioner Deborah Daniel said,  "I can tell you that in my experience no law enforcement officer is going to force a teenager to engage in a visit."

What!?
The moment took a few seconds to register or at least it seemed so. I placed my hand on the chair in front of me to steady myself and looked back at my wife who had her hands over her face, lightly shaking her head. My wife is beautiful inside and out and has never been exposed to the unsettling type of behavior that is the norm for Christy. It bothers me that I am the reason she is exposed to Christy's behavior. 
I couldn't get myself to look over at Christy. Silently I kept trying to convince myself that I misheard Commissioner Daniel. Please tell me she didn't just say that. Or at least tell me Christy wasn't paying attention.

Dammit, you just don't say something like that in front of Christy.
I still couldn't look over at Christy and risk seeing that look of self-satisfaction when she has just gotten away with something or figured out a way to cheat me or one of the other 2 fathers out of time with their respective children.  Out of their God-given right to spend time with them!  
Except this time, she hadn't figured out a way to get around a court-order, she had just been handed one. A gift. Christy had just been given the green light to place our daughter right in the middle of our conflict. 
God help April.

Our judge had just announced that there was a huge loophole in her own court order.
Can she do that? Why would she do that? 
Is she that...stupid? or was this intentional? Either scenario would be reason for concern.

Still, there was the chance that Christy didn't hear that. 
Christy would have been triggered when she found out that the ruling didn't go her way, I reasoned. When Christy gets triggered, some part of her brain seems to shut off and usually it’s the reasoning part but along with that also goes the listening part.
God I hope she didn't get that.

Three days later we would find out, in a most heart-wrenching way, that Christy heard every word. She would place April right back in the middle of this ordeal. You can see the torn look on April’s face throughout the entire video. Click here
Afterwards, when Christy and her entourage had safely escorted April into their car, Mike, the step-dad approached our van while we sat outside the gym, on hold with the Sheriff department. Mike repeated what the judge said, go ahead bring the police she will be waiting at home.
When Mike placed a finger in my face, I asked him to step away from the van. My wife and three girls were in the back of the van so I rolled the window up. As I did, Mike then kissed his fingertips and placed his fingers on the window. 


Since then we have had 10 Sheriff court-order violations and April has been placed in the middle of each and every exchange. 

This is only the beginning of the damage that Commissioner Deborah Daniel has caused.

It gets worse.

This is what happens next. Just three days later.


Additional notes: 
Listen to Step-dad,Mike taunt me, "how's that police calling working out for ya, good?"
and there's this one below:
REFERENCES: 
1. Commissioner Daniel on January 14, 2013, in her courtroom states that courts "quit reading after 5 pages. That's it. That's a maximum." The California Code Rules of the Court state that  a response can be up to 10 pages long. I really hope no judge stops reading half way through and then renders a decision.
NEW: Step-dad Interference with court-ordered custody time. October 25, 2012. Go to video.
NEW: This is what happened the very next week. November, 1, 2012 Go to Videos
NEW: The 1/2 a Ring Game. You will have to see it to believe it. Click Here.
NEW: Using April as A Pawn Click Here
NEW: The Telling Text Exchange Click Here