A couple days ago I was presented with another "suggestion." If I was to buy into the current narrative that the 16 year old girl who Christy took on their vacation to Jamaica was not their 24 year old Josh's girlfriend, but actually Kaylee's "friend"...then I Christy would set up a therapy session in which April and I could attend. Keep in mind my wife and I are still attending therapy with Christy's therapist and keeping her updated with the situation.
Ummm...No. I am sticking with the truth. Josh's girlfriend is 16 years old and I am being punished for saying so.
Last night I had an interesting exchange of Facebook inbox messages and texts. They were immediately accusatory and it was obvious that the person had made up their mind about something that she has only heard one side of the story and that the person was not familiar with how parental alienation works. It was odd how out of the blue I heard from this person and the level of animosity which her messages conveyed. Right away Tammy and I wondered if she had been recruited by my ex -or- my sister-in-law.
Later on that night, when it was confirmed that she had been recruited, it became obvious that stating facts and encouraging her to read about parental alienation was a waste of time. She had been duped, acted upon it, and then it is hard to step back and apologize for over-reacting.
My wife and I decided to forgive her because this is how alienators work.
In the meantime, its going on a month that we haven't been allowed to see April.