Join us on Monday in a day of protest! Additional Information at end of story...
WHEN: Monday, February 10, 2014 @ 10 AM
WHERE: San Bernardino County Courthouse
351 North Arrowhead Avenue,
San Bernardino, CA. 92415-0240
Here is a link to the event: https://www.facebook.com/events/650976531630721/
| THEY ASKED FOR A MISTRIAL! So how do you explain this? I am not an attorney. I am not an idiot either. Because I have an understanding of how common sense, reason, and logic work, I did a great job in presenting my case. I even helped Commissioner Daniel out a little with some much needed brushing up on her understanding of the California Rules of Court in admitting audio and video. They playing of which she was adamantly against. Can you imagine? No audio or video evidence allowed? When our trial started, I had two 2-inch binders packed with exhibits along with 3.4 gigabytes of audio, pictures, and video demonstrating what our family had been dealing with in the last 3 years. |  Megan and her dad in NYC. This was the day after "Megan was traumatised" by her father according to Shirley Stutson, MFT (Christy's Therapist) Click on picture for more evidence of Megan enduring trauma |
It included some irrefutable documentation of Christy interfering with my relationship with Megan. By the time our trial ended, I had 3 more binders and an additional 2 gigabytes of rebuttal evidence. Because, unlike Christy, I do have supporting evidence to back up my case and to debunk her lies, I don’t need to brainwash my own child to say what I want her to say.
Not just supporting evidence, but hard hitting, in-your-face evidence-- some of which was suppressed in one form or another by Commissioner Daniel, but what was admitted easily surpassed the criteria to be considered a preponderance of evidence in proving my case. The transcripts and the evidence from the trial will show just that. This was a no brainer, perfect for family court.
Our trial was 11 days total.
I told myself after every day in court that I would not gloat. It was challenging not updating my family and friends on social media with battles won every time I was allowed to clear up some uncorroborated accusations and outright lies. Christy stammering over inconsistencies, getting caught in lies (isn’t that perjury?) or admitted on the stand that they didn’t “do any real drugs” in her home, all this I met with muted merriment. At most I silently reveled on my drive home from each day in court believing that my daughter would be saved from this abuse soon. That Megan would be extracted out of the middle of this conflict, as common sense would dictate and a court-ordered psychologist recommended. That was all that really mattered to me. Megan is being tortured; pull her out.
I presented such a good case that Christy’s attorney, Diana Shropshire, asked for a mistrial after I presented my case.
A mistrial!?
For a moment it felt like my heart took one last thump and decided to stop circulating blood to my body. My extremities felt it first as my legs wobbled and then I felt like I was an outsider observing the court through a tunnel-like field. I was experiencing a parallel universe where logic doesn’t fly, reason is cackled at, and if you don’t like the way things are going you can hit the reset button.
Your honor can we just start over because my client’s malicious character is being revealed by this...this...truth we are all being exposed to. She’s choking your honor.
I really did expect Commissioner Daniel to grant it.
She didn’t. The blood rushed back through my body but still I was aware of being on wobbly footing.
I didn’t revel in any of my vindication for other reasons. I have learned from my own experiences as well as from the thousands of you going through this that these “victories” are short lived; just when you think truth, justice, or common sense has prevailed you are callously reminded of the harsh reality that this is a living nightmare. This is parental alienation and our family court system. Additionally, we were warned. Tammy and I have a well-regarded therapist in the area-a true professional- who prepared us for what was to come. When we began speaking to her about parental alienation she finished our sentences for us. She assessed we were dealing with someone with a personality disorder with us only describing a few of her disturbing behaviors. Then she advised us that even with irrefutable evidence and backed by top-notch attorney’s normal, healthy families don’t stand a chance. The parent most willing to sacrifice their own child wins. Our court system is not sophisticated enough yet to deal with this family dynamic. This doesn’t end well for you guys, she said.
My wife and I respect and love our therapist, but I did not want to believe her.
Commissioner Deborah Daniel mailed in her ruling. It is unwarranted and there are no grounds on which she can justify this ruling. She went from incompetent to vindictive; this is payback for openly calling her out on her incompetence, her lying, and bad judgment. If not because my website comes up as the top three results when you Google “Commissioner Deborah Daniel.”
Anyone who reads the transcript and the evidence submitted during our trial will see that this ruling has nothing to do with the facts of the case and everything to do with Commissioner Deborah Daniel retaliating for my filing a formal complaint with both the presiding judge and the supervising judge.
Unfortunately, instead of focusing and trying to do a better job in examining the facts she chose to use her position to retaliate against me. It is a transparent, self-gratifying attempt to strike back at me. She went from incompetent to vindictive. This is clearly overboard as there is not one behavior, conduct or incident that she can point to that would justify her ruling otherwise, wouldn’t it make sense to point it out?
What Commissioner Daniel (and Christy) does not realize is that I will be okay. I have a beautiful wife and wonderful children at home. I have a great support group and have a very good grasp of what is going on.
Megan, on the other hand, will not. She is already showing the detrimental signs of an alienated child being forced to hate her father. Megan will not be okay. The void in her life will have adverse ramifications throughout her life if not properly dealt with. Alienated children later have to deal with the regret of missing out on loving and fruitful relationships with an entire side of the family and the guilt of being forced to be complicit in the alienating behavior. Christy Garrison and Commissioner Daniel are hurting Megan. They are guilty of child abuse.
I presented a great case. Even though I am not an attorney, I am not an idiot either. Neither does the audio and video evidence lie. The transcripts along with the audio and video presented will irrefutably support the fact that this was pure and simply pay back from Commissioner Daniel.
She completely ignored every bit of evidence supporting alienating and interference and did this:
I am only allowed to see Megan on the 3rd Saturday of each month from 10 am to 4 pm. If Megan wants.
Not just supporting evidence, but hard hitting, in-your-face evidence-- some of which was suppressed in one form or another by Commissioner Daniel, but what was admitted easily surpassed the criteria to be considered a preponderance of evidence in proving my case. The transcripts and the evidence from the trial will show just that. This was a no brainer, perfect for family court.
Our trial was 11 days total.
I told myself after every day in court that I would not gloat. It was challenging not updating my family and friends on social media with battles won every time I was allowed to clear up some uncorroborated accusations and outright lies. Christy stammering over inconsistencies, getting caught in lies (isn’t that perjury?) or admitted on the stand that they didn’t “do any real drugs” in her home, all this I met with muted merriment. At most I silently reveled on my drive home from each day in court believing that my daughter would be saved from this abuse soon. That Megan would be extracted out of the middle of this conflict, as common sense would dictate and a court-ordered psychologist recommended. That was all that really mattered to me. Megan is being tortured; pull her out.
I presented such a good case that Christy’s attorney, Diana Shropshire, asked for a mistrial after I presented my case.
A mistrial!?
For a moment it felt like my heart took one last thump and decided to stop circulating blood to my body. My extremities felt it first as my legs wobbled and then I felt like I was an outsider observing the court through a tunnel-like field. I was experiencing a parallel universe where logic doesn’t fly, reason is cackled at, and if you don’t like the way things are going you can hit the reset button.
Your honor can we just start over because my client’s malicious character is being revealed by this...this...truth we are all being exposed to. She’s choking your honor.
I really did expect Commissioner Daniel to grant it.
She didn’t. The blood rushed back through my body but still I was aware of being on wobbly footing.
I didn’t revel in any of my vindication for other reasons. I have learned from my own experiences as well as from the thousands of you going through this that these “victories” are short lived; just when you think truth, justice, or common sense has prevailed you are callously reminded of the harsh reality that this is a living nightmare. This is parental alienation and our family court system. Additionally, we were warned. Tammy and I have a well-regarded therapist in the area-a true professional- who prepared us for what was to come. When we began speaking to her about parental alienation she finished our sentences for us. She assessed we were dealing with someone with a personality disorder with us only describing a few of her disturbing behaviors. Then she advised us that even with irrefutable evidence and backed by top-notch attorney’s normal, healthy families don’t stand a chance. The parent most willing to sacrifice their own child wins. Our court system is not sophisticated enough yet to deal with this family dynamic. This doesn’t end well for you guys, she said.
My wife and I respect and love our therapist, but I did not want to believe her.
Commissioner Deborah Daniel mailed in her ruling. It is unwarranted and there are no grounds on which she can justify this ruling. She went from incompetent to vindictive; this is payback for openly calling her out on her incompetence, her lying, and bad judgment. If not because my website comes up as the top three results when you Google “Commissioner Deborah Daniel.”
Anyone who reads the transcript and the evidence submitted during our trial will see that this ruling has nothing to do with the facts of the case and everything to do with Commissioner Deborah Daniel retaliating for my filing a formal complaint with both the presiding judge and the supervising judge.
Unfortunately, instead of focusing and trying to do a better job in examining the facts she chose to use her position to retaliate against me. It is a transparent, self-gratifying attempt to strike back at me. She went from incompetent to vindictive. This is clearly overboard as there is not one behavior, conduct or incident that she can point to that would justify her ruling otherwise, wouldn’t it make sense to point it out?
What Commissioner Daniel (and Christy) does not realize is that I will be okay. I have a beautiful wife and wonderful children at home. I have a great support group and have a very good grasp of what is going on.
Megan, on the other hand, will not. She is already showing the detrimental signs of an alienated child being forced to hate her father. Megan will not be okay. The void in her life will have adverse ramifications throughout her life if not properly dealt with. Alienated children later have to deal with the regret of missing out on loving and fruitful relationships with an entire side of the family and the guilt of being forced to be complicit in the alienating behavior. Christy Garrison and Commissioner Daniel are hurting Megan. They are guilty of child abuse.
I presented a great case. Even though I am not an attorney, I am not an idiot either. Neither does the audio and video evidence lie. The transcripts along with the audio and video presented will irrefutably support the fact that this was pure and simply pay back from Commissioner Daniel.
She completely ignored every bit of evidence supporting alienating and interference and did this:
I am only allowed to see Megan on the 3rd Saturday of each month from 10 am to 4 pm. If Megan wants.
The court finds that the persuasive evidence demonstrates that father’s behavior, conduct, and obsession with parental alienation are detrimental to the best interest of the minor child and makes the following findings and orders are made in the best interest of Megan:
1. Mother is awarded sole legal and sole physical custody. Father shall have access to records and information regarding the minor child, including medical, dental and school records pursuant to Family Code 3025
2. Father may have visitation with Megan on the 3rd Saturday of each month from 10 am until 6 pm, commencing February 15, 2014. These visits shall include the minor’s half-sibling Sophie whenever possible and may be canceled at Megan’s discretion with 24 hours advance notice. Father to provide all necessary transportation. The court strongly encourages Megan to participate in these visits and order mother not to interfere in any way.
On Monday, February 10th, 2014 at 10 AM I will be protesting in front of the San Bernardino County Court house. I will stand there alone if I have to. It will be the last stop on our winter cross country Parental Alienation awareness tour.
I will be contacting the media. I will be holding up our banner, flyers and signs. I will be handing out information and I will be speaking with anyone who will listen and people will listen. They already are listening. Change is coming.
WHEN: Monday, February 10, 2014 @ 10 AM
WHERE: San Bernardino County Courthouse
351 North Arrowhead Avenue,
San Bernardino, CA. 92415-0240
CONTACT ME IF YOU NEED MORE INFORMATION :
Here is my e-mail: April25.org@gmail.com
Here is my cell phone number: 760-619-4770 leave a message or text if I can't answer. I will get back to you.
Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/650976531630721/
I will be contacting the media. I will be holding up our banner, flyers and signs. I will be handing out information and I will be speaking with anyone who will listen and people will listen. They already are listening. Change is coming.
WHEN: Monday, February 10, 2014 @ 10 AM
WHERE: San Bernardino County Courthouse
351 North Arrowhead Avenue,
San Bernardino, CA. 92415-0240
CONTACT ME IF YOU NEED MORE INFORMATION :
Here is my e-mail: April25.org@gmail.com
Here is my cell phone number: 760-619-4770 leave a message or text if I can't answer. I will get back to you.
Event Link: https://www.facebook.com/events/650976531630721/
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